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    Quote Originally Posted by mono View Post
    I talked to an enfj about some anxiety problems I was having and he was very supportive and helpful.
    A week later I'm with the enfj and an istj and we're drinking and talking, having a good time and I start arguing with the istj, poking at each other lightheartedly like we always do, no one's angry at all, and all of the sudden the enfj explodes in front of everyone about how my nerves aren't well and I'm always angry at myself and people and I'm going crazy and need to start taking crazy pills. Everyone was staring at him dumbfounded. What a crazy cunt.
    And the fact that he attacked me based on something very personal I'd confided in a weak moment was really low.
    Not my first experience like that with an enfj either. They can be some of the most toxic, ignorant, narcissistic people around.
    Sorry to hear that. Some people just don't have good discretion. That's disgusting that he brought it out in the open like that.
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    I don’t hate this particular ENFJ, but she cut contact with me at the lowest point of my life, when I was suicidal and needed someone. The irony is that she attempted suicide herself several years ago, so I couldn’t understand why she’d just abandon me.
    “I touch people. I think everyone needs that.”

    “I don’t go by the rule-book. I lead from the heart, not the head.”

    “I think the biggest disease the world suffers in this day and age is the disease of people feeling unloved. I know that I can give love for a minute, for half an hour, for a day, for a month. I’m very happy to do that. I want to do that.”

    “I wear my heart on my sleeve.”


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    claustrophobic control freaks

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    I love them. I'm married to one. But they can come off as very pompous, self-righteous, critical, and bossy. They tend to be "mother hen" types, but it turns into "This is what you should do. I know what's best for you." It can get annoying, especially for an Fi-dom like me (can seem controlling), but I think they mean well. Except if it's a particularly unhealthy one.

    I've also seen how they can be very cutting with their words in certain situations. An angry ENFJ is not a pretty sight.
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