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[ENFJ] The ENFJ Thread
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JoSunshine
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but today the mix is seen as the most attractive:
1. White bone structure, light eyes and Brazilian skin tone and hair color
2. ^ but without the light eyes
3. #1 without the permanent tan
4. everyone else
I swear im not racist...im just really attracted to Brazilians with light eyes, European structure and dark hair/dark skin
Translucent, crystal green eyes run in my family...my cousin got them, but I didn't :steam: She is half Italian and half Native American. She looks like Angelina Jolie with dark skin. She is obscenly beautiful.
Venom
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JoSunshine
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I know...it's a tragedy 
And thanks for the vote of confidence 
And thanks for the vote of confidence My ENFJ pulled me out a little rut I was in last night.
You guys are the best. Best encouragers ever.
Totally agree! ENFJs are great!
Unkindloving
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Where do the ENFJs on here reside? I'm in Jersey. I know Fuzzcrossed is in Cali.
I honestly can't say i've met another one yet, unless i have and had no clue.
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Utah here.
(no I'm not religious)
Yeah I can't say I've truly seen one either... a few seem to possibly lean in that direction but then I always seem to see a different indicator. Did meet an ENFP once though, she was an incredible mentor.
(no I'm not religious)
Yeah I can't say I've truly seen one either... a few seem to possibly lean in that direction but then I always seem to see a different indicator. Did meet an ENFP once though, she was an incredible mentor.
Unkindloving
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I'm learning to understand the ENFJ better I think.
Goooood. Come to the dark side
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I've just made a 21 year old ENFJ girl cry without doing or saying anything particlarly nasty or disturbing. She is kind of used to charm everybody around her, and I simply didn't agree with one of her judgements, which made her... I don't know, sad? I don't really understand what happened, lol. ENFJs seem to have exactly the opposite effect on me than on other people.
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Our inter-personal interactions are particularly important to us, and personal values are extremely close. I could easily see something you said directed at an action very personal to her upsetting her much more than anything disturbing ever could.
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I was always confused as hell about this from the other end. The impersonal; the tangible; the rational, never phased me beyond a very iron willed steel balls frustration that translated immediately into determination... but sharing a belief & having it crushed was always devasting because it was a reaction based on a person... Something i find meaning in. And someone I found meaningful enough to share it with. I see a worth in everyone, & its often ridiculously virtuous. But, while i may appear to throw out 'trust' to too easily or not easily enough, telling someone a 'judgment' Ive made is an act of vulnerability. To cry at a reaction would be both an indication of how much the idea meant to me & the importance of the person I'm telling. In my mind, I'd feel complimented, not confused. And there's no doubting we need it sometimes.
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Just wanted to add a comment
My ex-girlfriend (who I fell very much in love with) tested as an ENFJ when she took the test a couple of weeks ago. She is easily one of the sweetest, gentlest souls on this planet. She gives so much of herself to everyone around her and very rarely does she recieve acknowledgement for her generousity and her compassion. As such, I always make it a point to remind her what an amazing person she is.
Her and I aren't together anymore (not because I don't care about her anymore, but because of distance. She lives on the other side of the continent from me) but I still can't imagine what my life would be without her.
You ENFJ's a truly amazing bunch and the world is blessed to have you. I hope you remember that the next time you have a bad day
My ex-girlfriend (who I fell very much in love with) tested as an ENFJ when she took the test a couple of weeks ago. She is easily one of the sweetest, gentlest souls on this planet. She gives so much of herself to everyone around her and very rarely does she recieve acknowledgement for her generousity and her compassion. As such, I always make it a point to remind her what an amazing person she is.
Her and I aren't together anymore (not because I don't care about her anymore, but because of distance. She lives on the other side of the continent from me) but I still can't imagine what my life would be without her.
You ENFJ's a truly amazing bunch and the world is blessed to have you. I hope you remember that the next time you have a bad day
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