[MBTI General] Bloody INFPs and their capacity to turn INTJs into fuzzy hug addicts.

[OrangeAppled]

Anyone taking advice from an INFJ should know they are fucking liars themselves making themselves appear fancier than their counterparts INFP. It's sad to see post after post of negative INFJ attacks on INFPs when it doesn't happen vice versa. That makes it clear that INFJs are dirt.

I have no clue as to why INFPs would involve themselves with INTJs. Seems like they do much better with ST types. I think some INFPs mistake INTJs as needing their help, but then find out that the INTJ doesn't have what it takes to maintain a relationship.

You're trying to score points with INFPs, aren't you? Sneaky, sneaky

Oh, and that is true of INTJs, from my experience.

Na, it's mostly Athenian and he's been doing this for a while. His input is useful in showing our worst side coupled with the distortion of outside viewing. It actually shows a good reason to open our eyes to our negatives and at least do something about it. It's just too bad that in these cases he's mostly about the negatives; but I shouldn't talk, since I'm not much better.

Like we don't dwell on our own flaws enough as it is. I don't need anyone opening my eyes....

 

[Biaxident]

Nope. You are permanently infected, there is no cure.

 

[runvardh]

Like we don't dwell on our own flaws enough as it is. I don't need anyone opening my eyes....

Dwelling on things and seeing how something actually affects someone are two different things. One is destructive, the other is educational.

 

[Cranky]

I have no clue as to why INFPs would involve themselves with INTJs. Seems like they do much better with ST types. I think some INFPs mistake INTJs as needing their help, but then find out that the INTJ doesn't have what it takes to maintain a relationship.

Please provide me with a list of the characteristics INTJs possess which make them unable to maintain a relationship, in your opinion. I'm interested to know.

Everything's fair game, although I should note that, historically, the main reason I chose not to either engage in or maintain a relationship with someone is that I found them boring, sexually uninspiring, poor at maintaining their end of an intellectual conversation, or unable to confront their issues. I don't and never did give a crap what someone looked like (although a nice ass and broad shoulders doesn't HURT) or what they did for a living, so long as they were healthy and happy. Heck, I was even more than happy to work with sexually uninspiring, since that's an interesting challenge.

 

[OrangeAppled]

Dwelling on things and seeing how something actually affects someone are two different things. One is destructive, the other is educational.

Okay, that's semantics though. I still don't think it's helpful or eye-opening. I think criticism has to come from someone who respects you and is really on your side.

 

[runvardh]

Okay, that's semantics though. I still don't think it's helpful or eye-opening. I think criticism has to come from someone who respects you and is really on your side.

That's why you learn to develop your bullshit detector.

Information can be gleaned from any source, no matter how antagonistic; one just needs to know how to sort what is worth hearing, understanding, or chucking.

 

[OrangeAppled]

That's why you learn to develop your bullshit detector.

Information can be gleaned from any source, no matter how antagonistic; one just needs to know how to sort what is worth hearing, understanding, or chucking.

I have it, and I use it a lot here

 

[runvardh]

I have it, and I use it a lot here

As long as pain doesn't blind you. By the way, you're not the only INFP in the world.

 

[OrangeAppled]

As long as pain doesn't blind you. By the way, you're not the only INFP in the world.

I'm not in pain .

And really, I'm not?

 

[runvardh]

I'm not in pain .

And really, I'm not?

 

[Cranky]

Are the last twenty or so entries in this thread what you guys call 'thread entropy'?

 

[runvardh]

Are the last twenty or so entries in this thread what you guys call 'thread entropy'?

Na, just the results of it. That is, unless a certian German shows up, then that is definately thread entropie.

 

[evangela]

Hey sorry OrangeAppled for confusing you, my theory hasn't exactly been finalized yet, I just needed a response to it so i could know what area to improve on it first, which is obviously logic, I seem to be unfortunally lacking in that area. This thread is very interesting anyway.

 

[Cranky]

This thread is very interesting anyway.

Thank you.

 

[lillyofthevalley]

There's a problem here. I was wrong about his character, and he was capable of deliberately hurting me quite badly || He was mean to make me angry instead of hurt || He simply didn't care enough about me and my feelings after dating for months to be kind.

Those are the only three options I can see.

He was a commitment phobe. It comes in all types. The reason why he ran was because he DID like you and he couldn't handle it.

 

[Cranky]

He was a commitment phobe. It comes in all types. The reason why he ran was because he DID like you and he couldn't handle it.

Too F%$#ing bad for him. :steam:

Also, that's just WEIRD. Why wouldn't you want to lock down a completely good thing? That's utterly illogical.

 

[lillyofthevalley]

Too F%$#ing bad for him. :steam:

Also, that's just WEIRD. Why wouldn't you want to lock down a completely good thing? That's utterly illogical.

It is illogical. These guys are kind of pathetic really. They crave the feelings that come with attraction and connection but they freak when it looks like they may have to move on to the next level.

Question: Did he seem to move a little fast for you at first? Super sweet, attentive, called you more than most guys do?

 

[Cranky]

It is illogical. These guys are kind of pathetic really. They crave the feelings that come with attraction and connection but they freak when it looks like they may have to move on to the next level.

Question: Did he seem to move a little fast for you at first? Super sweet, attentive, called you more than most guys do?

OMG.

 

[LEGERdeMAIN]

hahahahahaha

 

[Biaxident]

OMG.

LOL