BlahBlahNounBlah
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Lack of sense of humor. Except for the occasional INTJ
What? Or was that the joke?
Lack of sense of humor. Except for the occasional INTJ
The whole NT-criticizing-everything-that-isn't-logical thing, it really drives me nuts.
The extraordinary are creative thinkers.
Obliviousness is the shield for my heart; removed, I'd say everyone is a jerk...
I'm applying the warpaint while I type. Non-toxic, non petroleum based warpaint, of course. Vegetable pigment dyes. Fair trade and cruelty free.
that they think we're all a bunch of pussy whiney emos with our hearts on are sleeves. I am a pussy but i only whine online and I do not wear my heart on my sleeve do you know how many times people are shocked when I actually tell them how I feel about something? I've been told that I carry myself in a way that's not exactly apathetic but more like I don't care.
*Occasional lapses in humility(STs,NTs)
*Comfort with pretentiousness(SJs and sometimes NTs)
*Treatment of current social norms as self-evident "truths"
*Emotional insensitivity(T types)
*Easily buying into negative stereotypes
*Generalized negativity(SJs)
*Overvaluing the external and undervaluing the internal(Ts)
SPs: hedonistic, lack of morals or won't take a stand for anything, don't care about anything but having fun, ridiculously stubborn over things they don't even know much about, often think they are really funny but are just obnoxious, irresponsible, can seem shallow, users, lack of foresight, only trust their own experience, dismissive of concepts/theories as useless or invalid because they're not "real"
Short hair is adorable on me, and napes of the neck and ears showing is sexy, if they're pretty napes and nice ears, which I happen to have, and besides, shut up.
Worse than the helicopter IMO. So much worse.
I hate that nonchalant attitude as well.. Like, just because something isn't important to you doesn't make it not important at all. You aren't the center of the universe, and I've listened to pages of nonsense about what you think is important and stressful because I know just because I don't value it doesn't mean it lacks value.. (I say You in reference to non-nfs not to you darling)
Yeah and the NT: If you don't like me or something I do it's because you are stupid. NT's call NF's whiners if they are defensive. NT's just try to say everyone else is dumb when they are told things wrong with them.
So true. And Spamtar totally gets honorable mention for trying.
In school, I have noticed some common trends..
SPs find and make friends with others who are of the same interests. Those who have fallen for sports make friends with other jocks, those who are artistic make friends with others who make artwork, the stoners make friends with the stoners, etc etc. It's almost as if there are no values in their relationships. Or I don't see them as values. They hang around other people who do the same things that they do.
SJs are structured. SJs hang out with other SJs. They make a specific group of friends and once that barrier is formed, few get in or out. It's all about popularity in a sense. They don't really get it when someone doesn't fit in.
NTs are very exclusive, from my experiences. They tend to hide their intellect for other NTs who are of the same level. One of my close friends is an INTP, and even though I'm one of his best friends, he'd rather hang out with other NTs than with a close friend. I guess it has something to do with the level of intellect they all share.
I'm not trying to make it seem like NFs are the best, all I'm doing it pointing out a few general annoyances I have found in other temperaments from school-related experiences.
As for a person like me, I'm kind of in the middle, or not even in on any of this. I don't really belong anywhere, and prefer not to limit myself to a specific group of friends, or even limit myself. I have a diverse range of friends.
Originally posted by prplchknz: that they think we're all a bunch of pussy whiney emos with our hearts on are sleeves. I am a pussy but i only whine online and I do not wear my heart on my sleeve do you know how many times people are shocked when I actually tell them how I feel about something? I've been told that I carry myself in a way that's not exactly apathetic but more like I don't care.
NT superiority complexes can become nerve-grating...but I think it only usually happens after they find out they're NTs
much like when some people find out they're NFs they must upload a stupid dreamy-looking avatar (a bit of self-loathing here is called for).
Obliviousness is the shield for my heart; removed, I'd say everyone is a jerk...
I don't have a problem with being mean, as long as there's a disclaimer
These are generalizations, and obviously don't apply to all types of each temperament....but these are some things which annoy me:
NTs: know-it-alls, arrogant - if they are wrong, they brush it off, but if you are wrong, they rub it in - obtuse and/or degrading to other people's feelings, argumentative over the stupidest things, can look/be embarrassing, tend to have chips on their shoulders about something, can't see out of their logic blinders and exercise empathy, never apologize, lack of humility, unappreciative, not gracious
SPs: hedonistic, lack of morals or won't take a stand for anything, don't care about anything but having fun, ridiculously stubborn over things they don't even know much about, often think they are really funny but are just obnoxious, irresponsible, can seem shallow, users, lack of foresight, only trust their own experience, dismissive of concepts/theories as useless or invalid because they're not "real"
SJs: make fun of things simply because they are not "normal", think their way is always the best way, have a hard time grasping views and personalities different from their own, can seem downright bland, obsessed with rules and enforcing rules just for the sake of rules, love to finger wag and guilt-trip, introverted ones can be painfully nerdy, can be know-it-alls, think they've got everyone figured out but they are so far from the truth, repeat themselves over and over ad nauseum