[ENFP] Hate an ENFP? Tell us why!

[Synthetic Darkness]

ENFPs are way too sensitive,emotionally clingy, severely ADHD, whiny, and way too full of drama. They also get all pissy if offended and try and be really mean, but are just inept at it.

Oh and they never shut up.

Amen.

 

[Moiety]

ENFPs...are clingy and loud, obnoxious and are fickle.

ENFPs are way too sensitive,emotionally clingy, severely ADHD, whiny, and way too full of drama. They also get all pissy if offended and try and be really mean, but are just inept at it.

Oh and they never shut up.

Maybe I'm a one-of-a-kind ENFP then because I can't relate to any of that.

 

[Tiny Army]

I know! We don't ever shut up. And we can never stay on topic either.

And I am really inept at being mean. I just stopped trying because it makes me look like an idiot.

I really like how the ENFPs took over this thread to complain about themselves when everyone else stopped. It's just because we're shameless attention whores.

 

[Lady_X]

Maybe I'm a one-of-a-kind ENFP then because I can't relate to any of that.

exactly...that's what i'm saying. i'm none of those things either. loud?? never shut up?? wth?? obnoxious?? clingy?? wtf?? seriously...not at all...defensive maybe but only when people are WRONG!

 

[Tiny Army]

(I ain't either but I can be! It's why I stopped drinking.)

 

[Laurie]

Yeah I used to be more like that, not so much anymore

 

[Hexis]

ENFPs are way too sensitive,emotionally clingy, severely ADHD, whiny, and way too full of drama. They also get all pissy if offended and try and be really mean, but are just inept at it.

Oh and they never shut up.

What?! Those are some of my best traits!

exactly...that's what i'm saying. i'm none of those things either. loud?? never shut up?? wth?? obnoxious?? clingy?? wtf?? seriously...not at all...defensive maybe but only when people are WRONG!

Soooo...I guess he hit a soft spot?

 

[Lady_X]

i was never like that! it's statements like that that make me question my E'ness because no one would ever call me loud or obnoxious.

not irl anyway!

 

[Amargith]

Soooo...I guess he hit a soft spot?

Is it me or are male ENFPs way more likely to try and stirr up trouble than female ones?

 

[Lady_X]

What?! Those are some of my best traits!



Soooo...I guess he hit a soft spot?

mmhmm...get it right damn it! haha

 

[Hexis]

i was never like that! it's statements like that that make me question my E'ness because no one would ever call me loud or obnoxious.

not irl anyway!

ENFPs are the most introverted of all extroverted types, makes since. Its just to those pesky SJ that we can seem like it cause anyone who interrupts their perfect silences with just two words is being loud and obnoxious.

 

[Tiny Army]

For all my postwhoring, I don't think I'm actually that loud IRL.

 

[Hexis]

I can be if my silly switch is flipped, or if im drunk. But its all intentional baby!

 

[Lady_X]

i just get this image in my head of those loud obnoxious people that think they''re funny and cool and they won't shut the hell up and everyone wishes they would just go away...and as enfp's i think we're so plugged into the people around us that that just wouldn't happen....we'd know if we were annoying someone and we'd shut the hell up...or put the focus back on them or someone else...but could have to do with upbringing?? maybe it just depends on your etiquette??

 

[Hexis]

Also depends on if ur purposely trying to be an ass to someone who are not fond of...

Recently had a friend take the tests and it was a tie between INTP and ENFP so I had her read both profiles. After she read the ENFP we had the following convo.

Her: Yeah ENFP doesnt fit all, INTP is dead on though
Me: Oh thats awesome, yeah I couldnt see you for my type
Her: Your an ENFP?! But your not a people person, it says that type gets along great with people...
Me: Oh im a people person all right...i just so happen to hate them too, so I choose to ignore the empathy I receive from them and continue on...
Her: ...

 

[Lady_X]

i know! just because we like people doesn't mean we like all people..

 

[Hexis]

i know! just because we like people doesn't mean we like all people...i can be quite cold if i don't like you....and i'm only interested in interesting conversation...so i'm not just going to sit and chat with anybody about anything.

damn...i sound nice don't i?

lol

 

[Amargith]

i know! just because we like people doesn't mean we like all people...i can be quite cold if i don't like you....and i'm only interested in interesting conversation...so i'm not just going to sit and chat with anybody about anything.

damn...i sound nice don't i?

Sometimes people just suck. I'll choose animals over people anyday.

 

[Moiety]

"Your an ENFP?! But your not a people person, it says that type gets along great with people..."

lol, that sounds just like something a friend of mine would tell me, too.

i just get this image in my head of those loud obnoxious people that think they''re funny and cool and they won't shut the hell up and everyone wishes they would just go away...and as enfp's i think we're so plugged into the people around us that that just wouldn't happen....we'd know if we were annoying someone and we'd shut the hell up...or put the focus back on them or someone else...

I agree. But like Hexis said, if I were to try and piss someone off....

Sometimes people just suck. I'll choose animals over people anyday.

Well, I hate people like you!

 

[Hexis]

I agree with all the above...