[ENFP] Hate an ENFP? Tell us why!

[Yuurei]

I don't know how true this is for ENFP's in general but the ones I know:

#1
"For the love of GOD can you make a decision on something, anything Don't even think about it just gimme and answer 'Yes' or 'No'!"
"uuuh.."
"GODDAMNIT!" *defenestrates self*

 

[Coriolis]

I don't know how true this is for ENFP's in general but the ones I know:

#1
"For the love of GOD can you make a decision on something, anything Don't even think about it just gimme and answer 'Yes' or 'No'!"
"uuuh.."
"GODDAMNIT!" *defenestrates self*

Related to this: they seem unable to commit to anything. The idea of meeting at a specific time, in a specific place, to do a specific thing seems foreign to them.

 

[Red Memories]

I don't know how true this is for ENFP's in general but the ones I know:

#1
"For the love of GOD can you make a decision on something, anything Don't even think about it just gimme and answer 'Yes' or 'No'!"
"uuuh.."
"GODDAMNIT!" *defenestrates self*

But... I mean I could try... XD

 

[highlander]

TALKING THROUGH MOVIES

This

 

[Red Memories]

This

BUT BUT

THE EXCITEMENT IS UNCONTAINABLE

 

[Earl Grey]

yeah true. some enfps definitely have a certain entitlement for not considering others or being "flighty" because "it's just how they are."

if it was just that they had poor time management, that would be one thing. maybe more forgivable. but this goes beyond that and i see it A LOT!

This.

To those ENFPs out there who are this way; Consider: if you're serially pissing multiple people off, maybe it's time to look in the mirror.

Also:
- Believing in something doesn't necessarily make it true.
- On a similar vein, feeling anything about something does not entitle you to it.
- Agreements are there for a reason. Stick to them. The world goes beyond your small bubble of authentic wonderland comfort.


And this one is from me, and it's personal:

Get the fuck off my back. I don't need your HappyTimeâ„¢ candy sprinkles.

 

[Virtual ghost]

It all comes down to ADHD lifestyle. In a lot of ways I was a parent to my ENFP mother.

 

[Red Memories]

I know I hear about flightly ENFPs and in some senses I am flighty in some things but not in plans. If I make a plan I'll be more annoyed if you cancel. XD

 

[Doctor Cringelord]

Their enthusiasm is admirable, but when it comes to implementation and planning for their big ideas, there is much to be desired.

 

[Peter Deadpan]

TALKING THROUGH MOVIES

This is my daughter.

Related to this: they seem unable to commit to anything. The idea of meeting at a specific time, in a specific place, to do a specific thing seems foreign to them.

This is me.

 

[ThoughtBubbles]

i honestly tend to find ENFPs to be the most annoying type. then again, it might be me disliking former weaknesses of mine?

 

[Earl Grey]

i honestly tend to find ENFPs to be the most annoying type. then again, it might be me disliking former weaknesses of mine?

Smoke in the mirror...?
Very possible though. You can't notice let alone dislike what you do not know.

 

[mgbradsh]

You can't notice let alone dislike what you do not know.

Au contraire. Allow me to introduce you to my good friend Misanthropy.

 

[Earl Grey]

Au contraire. Allow me to introduce you to my good friend Misanthropy.

I generally think that most people project their beliefs onto the world, whether or not it is true.
Technically, in that kind of situation, the misanthrope knows themselves; that is how they can identify similar things in others. You don't see what you don't know.

 

[mgbradsh]

I generally think that most people project their beliefs onto the world, whether or not it is true.
Technically, in that kind of situation, the misanthrope knows themselves; that is how they can identify similar things in others. You don't see what you don't know.

No.

 

[Norexan]

ironically i tend to dislike a lot of enfps. i especially hate it when they're like OH, I'M GOING TO BLOW OFF HANGING OUT WITH YOU CUZ I'M A FREEEEE SPIIIIRRIIIIIIT AND YOU JUST HAVE TO DEAL WITH MY RANDOM CANCELLATIONS AND NO CONSIDERATION FOR ANYONE ELSE'S SCHEDULE

SFP all the time.

 

[Sacrophagus]

TALKING THROUGH MOVIES

"Talking through a movie is a good thing, sleeping through a movie is a better thing, but having sex in the middle of a movie is the best thing."


ENFP wisdom.

 

[Wunjo]

They have this stranger pan syndrom-esque, eternal child thing. Sometimes it gets on my nerves.

 

[Dreamer]

Hot DANG it sounds like many of you had some unfortunate run-ins with some entitled brats that think they’re the center of the universe...are we sure they’re all ENFP or just teenagers hah!

I’d be curious to know some of the annoyances various types have of mature or “established” ENFPs, those that know what they want out of life and aren’t so hostage to every fleeting sight and sound that comes their way.

 

[Metis]

I’d be curious to know some of the annoyances various types have of mature or “established” ENFPs, those that know what they want out of life and aren’t so hostage to every fleeting sight and sound that comes their way.

Financial fraud.