All right, that's almost embarrassing:
I've met my childhood friend yesterday and spoke about Enneagram a lot (I've read hell of a lot about MBTI, but Enneagam is new to me). She said, quote: 'No way you're 8. You're parents are 3s or 8s, but you're not!'.
We discussed this a lot and she explained me that I have to look at who I was being younger, not who I became dealing with hardships and fighting for my career. She sent me links to two complex Enneagram tests (sorry guys, it's in Polish) and... (here goes the embarassing part) I've tested twice as
4w5.
So, yeah. I'm not the first ENFJ 8 in this world.
And it also makes sense... Writer with rather an artistic type. Yup.
PS According to her I'm exemplary ENFJ, though. Oof, at least that stays the same. Kidding. About that I was actually sure.