I like someone who is independent, can practice self-control and is not needy. Understanding, is a "giver" who can also hold up a conversation and we share the same sense of humor. An organized person, caring and has goals that she wants to achieve and is ambitious. I won't say intelligent because that can be somewhat subjective but as long as she is not naive. It also helps that I find you attractive (you don't have to be a super model but I do need to feel attraction) and take care of your health. Most of all likes to have fun and is adventurous so we can go do some crazy shit out there.