[MBTI General] NFP type sexiness analysis

[hommefatal]

My GF is ESTJ. They're very easy to talk to. A lot of people here tend to only know them from a work/school standpoint where they're very much down to business. When you catch them socially they are awesome and a probably mistyped as something else due to bias.

How is she like? The girlfriend of my father is an ESTJ and she is very bossy and always dissatisfied. I agree if ESTJ have NP values it's okay. It's also more that I dislike ESTJ behaviour. I notice it's an ESTJ and then I say "sucks". They are not soft and imaginative enough to me. They're the only type I don't get well along with. Since I don't care about adapting to them.

 

[JocktheMotie]

How is she like? The girlfriend of my father is an ESTJ and she is very bossy and always dissatisfied. I agree if ESTJ have NP values it's okay. It's also more that I dislike ESTJ behaviour. I notice it's an ESTJ and then I say "sucks". They are not soft and imaginative enough to me.

Well she is bossy and always complains about things. But her positives always outweigh a couple of negative quirks. She has a similar humour as I, and has a penchant for "filling in the gaps" of my personality so we work together quite well and enjoys my silliness. She is a fantastic manager of material things, which is something I always loose track of and greatly love and appreciate. I force her to try new things and inject the chaos that she needs a bit to try to loosen up. We've both grown very well.

She is great fun and I love to have her around.

 

[mortabunt]

Nu-uh. INTP > all.

You all feel it, you just don't realize it.

 

[Prototype]

What makes these types sexy?...

 

[hommefatal]

What makes these types sexy?...

Their behaviour.

Well she is bossy and always complains about things. But her positives always outweigh a couple of negative quirks. She has a similar humour as I, and has a penchant for "filling in the gaps" of my personality so we work together quite well and enjoys my silliness. She is a fantastic manager of material things, which is something I always loose track of and greatly love and appreciate. I force her to try new things and inject the chaos that she needs a bit to try to loosen up. We've both grown very well.

She is great fun and I love to have her around.

I think there are enough ESTJs that are okay but I seek a whole personality. So opposite types are not very useful.

 

[Fluffywolf]

ESTJ is the typical brutal lover. I don't like that. INTPs are often childlike and thoughtful and are less interested in sexuality.

Not less interested in sexuality. Just interested from a whole different perspective.

We tend not to care much for 'sex' itself, but making love with our partner is and entirely different process! And damn, I have so many kinks it'll never be boring. But only with the person I love.

 

[Dali]

What is it with ENFP girls and branding us cute?

For the 30th time, puppies are cute; kittens are cute; Knut is cute; chubby toddlers are cute; men are not to be branded cute as a compliment.

*fume*

 

[BerberElla]

What is it with ENFP girls and branding us cute?

For the 30th time, puppies are cute; kittens are cute; Knut is cute; chubby toddlers are cute; men are not to be branded cute as a compliment.

*fume*

That's so cute.

 

[hommefatal]

That's so cute.

Totally agreed.

 

[Dali]

^ I believe Charles Manson went on that rampage due to one of you calling him cute.

Just saying.

 

[Lady_X]

cute is a good thing for a guy to be! you people need to chill.

 

[Fluffywolf]

Cute, I've been told I am occasionally...

...on the surface.

 

[mortabunt]

People think I'm cute, but that's until they see how I play combat games...

 

[Dali]

I wonder whether you two would still not mind it as much if every other compliment you got from a girl was being called 'cute'.

I'm not as irate as I may seem to be coming off.

I'd just, you know, prefer hotanddangerouslysexy for a change.

 

[Fluffywolf]

You can be that.

Instead of being defensive. Be assertive instead. Cuteness will quickly change into sexyness.

It's the defensiveness that girls find cute.

 

[phoenix13]

Totally agree with you. INFP would have been 5th and ISTP 6th. ENFPs are not that sexy because they are often not that playful and not concentrated either. I think many ENFPs are not that sexual but rather self-contained. They are usually more interested in ideas. That's probably because of their dominant Ne. But I am very sexual, very Fi and Fe.

Wow, are you confused?

for real...whhaaaa????!!!

enfps are way sexy... you don't what you're talkin about boy!

yes.

As I said, they like to be advisers, which is why they neglect their own needs.

no, no, no!

the enfp's sexuality. they like to give others advice on sexuality instead of doing it themselves. haha.

no.

i'm totally getting a new spokesperson.

yes yes yes!!!

Hommefatal is a "special" enfp, and not representative of all enfps by any means.

 

[Prototype]

Their behaviour...

That's broad assessment!

Elaborate!

 

[Fluffywolf]

It means "The most N pleasing.".

 

[Moiety]

^ I believe Charles Manson went on that rampage due to one of you calling him cute.

Just saying.

Charles Manson WAS one of us. Bwahahaha. Or something.

 

[hommefatal]

Wow, are you confused?


yes.


no, no, no!


no.


yes yes yes!!!

Hommefatal is a "special" enfp, and not representative of all enfps by any means.

It may not apply to you but to others. It's just some observations. Maybe some ENFPs don't want to show their weaknesses but they do exist. The only difference to a normal ENFP is I analyse everything and plan reactions in advance. But that's just because I hate disappointment.