[MBTI General] Key to winning a woman's heart?

[AOA]

ROFL Yes. Read the books of all the great masters and you shall accumulate the knowledge of the universe. XD

Heh. The book emoticon was a joke.

... I'm thinking, winning a woman's heart - as in, hmm... where to begin.

LOL. Hopefully, I'll come to...

 

[GinKuusouka]

Ever see the movie Gone Baby Gone? heh...

On the flip side, it's all business suits and briefcases.

No middle ground whatsoever.

I haven't seen the whole of the movie, but enough to know what you mean, I hope. It does sound like a tough situation however. I'm not certain that I know what to say right now even except perhaps don't give up the dream. If you could choose though, is there anywhere else that you would like to be? If so, where? If you don't wish to say, it's all good.

Heh. The book emoticon was a joke.

... I'm thinking, winning a woman's heart - as in, hmm... where to begin.

LOL. Hopefully, I'll come to...

haha Right right. I was teasing you. But yeah. We all learn a bit from each other, if we want to.

 

[Wade Wilson]

I haven't seen the whole of the movie, but enough to know what you mean, I hope. It does sound like a tough situation however. I'm not certain that I know what to say right now even except perhaps don't give up the dream. If you could choose though, is there anywhere else that you would like to be? If so, where? If you don't wish to say, it's all good.

I don't have anywhere specific in mind. I'd like to move to the southwest somewhere. Some small town where people go to disappear or start over.

Only problem is I watch too many movies and adopt too many misconceptions about places so who knows.

 

[GinKuusouka]

I don't have anywhere specific in mind. I'd like to move to the southwest somewhere. Some small town where people go to disappear or start over.

Only problem is I watch too many movies and adopt too many misconceptions about places so who knows.

Who knows indeed? I guess it would depend on the movie. But, in general, they're great for entertainment. Especially considering Hollywood, are they always correct when it comes to telling the truth? Maybe. Maybe not. I guess, if you're really interested, do some research and meet some people that are from the area, even if only over the internet. Then again, that's just my opinion. The world is wide and filled with possibilities. And adventures.

 

[Wade Wilson]

Who knows indeed? I guess it would depend on the movie. But, in general, they're great for entertainment. Especially considering Hollywood, are they always correct when it comes to telling the truth? Maybe. Maybe not. I guess, if you're really interested, do some research and meet some people that are from the area, even if only over the internet. Then again, that's just my opinion. The world is wide and filled with possibilities. And adventures.

Well, regardless, I won't be going anywhere for awhile.

I'll be a busy, busy bee for the next year or two with my new business.

So I pretty much just keep to myself for the time being. I've reached that point in my life where making a connection with someone would be nice but if not, that's just the roll of the dice.

 

[AOA]

haha Right right. I was teasing you. But yeah. We all learn a bit from each other, if we want to.

Guess some of us got a long way to go (yet) - before we get it right until we can 'really' win a woman's heart.

... I'll take your tip, none the less.

 

[GinKuusouka]

Well, regardless, I won't be going anywhere for awhile.

I'll be a busy, busy bee for the next year or two with my new business.

So I pretty much just keep to myself for the time being. I've reached that point in my life where making a connection with someone would be nice but if not, that's just the roll of the dice.

I hear ya. Hopefully though, when the time is right, things will happen for you. That which you desire most will come for you.

What kind of business, if you don't mind my asking?

Guess some of us got a long way to go (yet) - before we get it right until we can 'really' win a woman's heart.

... I'll take your tip, none the less.

lol Trust me. When I tried the opposite, I always messed it up somehow, trying to win a guy's heart. lol I'm a complete klutz. I suppose all I can do is just be myself and hope that's enough.

haha Take it or leave it. That's entirely up to you.

 

[Wade Wilson]

I hear ya. Hopefully though, when the time is right, things will happen for you. That which you desire most will come for you.

What kind of business, if you don't mind my asking?

It's an online comic book store. Nothin' fancy.

 

[GinKuusouka]

It's an online comic book store. Nothin' fancy.

Oh sweet deal! Comic books are totally awesome. Which is your favorite?

 

[Jonathanthegreat]

hey this thread is about persistence and winning woman's heart! INTP man I have advice, GO IN THE SUNLIGHT haha jk don't take that too harshly, my best friend of 10 years is an INTP and 90% of his time is spent in front of a screen. the other ten is eating sleeping and smoking pot haha. kid is a genius just laaaaaazy. Complains he never meets girls BUT HE NEVER LEAVES HIS HOUSE!!! unless i PRY him out the front door. But yea just gotta get out of your mind and live in the physical world. easier said than done, especially for us intuitives

 

[Tiny Army]

Don't be a retarded, self involved asshole.

It seems so straightforward but I don't think I've ever seen a guy try that approach.

 

[Synapse]

Don't be a retarded, self involved asshole.

It seems so straightforward but I don't think I've ever seen a guy try that approach.

Wait that actually works.

But I love my retarded self involved asshole, the other day he jumped off of a pick up and landed on the floor all bruised and sore.

The gnome didn't look much better either, all that polish ruined the suit and the rain just soaked the jacket.

 

[Synapse]

You know how its said that women respond to romance. where the man has to dress, do stuff that is totally unnatural, take the time to set up situations that resemble he cares enough to do something romantic. how insane is that, that is inauthentic when after the romance the guy goes back to his true colours, then the expectation wanes and the women wonders why the romance is dead. i hear being authentic is the key to winning a womans heart yet when a woman wants to be romanced, how then is that authentic, its false.

 

[BerberElla]

You know how its said that women respond to romance. where the man has to dress, do stuff that is totally unnatural, take the time to set up situations that resemble he cares enough to do something romantic. how insane is that, that is inauthentic when the nature of the beast is such that after the farce of romance the guy goes back to his true colours, then the expectation wanes and the women wonders why the romance is dead. i hear being authentic is the key to winning a womans heart yet when a woman wants to be romanced, how then is that authentic, its false.

What is totally unnatural that he has to do?

Dress himself up how?

And why would this be false for everyone?

 

[Moiety]

What is totally unnatural that he has to do?

Dress himself up how?

And why would this be false for everyone?

I think Synapse might be talking about chivalry.

 

[simulatedworld]

Don't be a retarded, self involved asshole.

It seems so straightforward but I don't think I've ever seen a guy try that approach.

Again I ask--does this really do anything on its own?

I've met very, VERY few women who are willing to be honest about what they want in a mate. Most would rather just say what they think they should want, which makes it pretty confusing.

Obviously "don't be an asshole" is a prerequisite, but I doubt very seriously that that's the only thing required.

 

[BerberElla]

I think Synapse might be talking about chivalry.

But what's unnatural about chivalry?

Isn't it very natural for some people to be that way anyway?

 

[BerberElla]

Again I ask--does this really do anything on its own?

I've met very, VERY few women who are willing to be honest about what they want in a mate. Most would rather just say what they think they should want, which makes it pretty confusing.

Obviously "don't be an asshole" is a prerequisite, but I doubt very seriously that that's the only thing required.

I know what you mean, I find it much much easier to list the things I don't want, than the things I do.

Perhaps because I have more experience in what hasn't worked, than what has?

I have a sort of rough idea, ie he needs to be nice.......lol how broad and undefined is that?

 

[Synapse]

Yes the chivalry, I think what I mean is that once you get past the romance stage women get disappointed when the romance isn't happening like it used to.

 

[BerberElla]

Yes the chivalry, I think what I mean is that once you get past the romance stage women get disappointed when the romance isn't happening like it used to.

Only if it's forced in the first place, I'm guessing certain types would find "romance" more natural and long lasting than others.

I'm hoping anyway.