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[Ni] does anyone else have this type of mindset

whimsical

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I always think to myself that I have to try something before I judge it. I'll do things that aren't even "me" to get a perspective of things, for example I have always had a negative view of drugs and mind altering substances but I wanted to try them just to see what all these other people were feeling. I do a lot of bad stuff just to get the perspective of another person.
 
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I always think to myself that I have to try something before I judge it. I'll do things that aren't even "me" to get a perspective of things, for example I have always had a negative view of drugs and mind altering substances but I wanted to try them just to see what all these other people were feeling. I do a lot of bad stuff just to get the perspective of another person.

Yes. I do this with books, movies, music, food and stuff like that. I mean, how do you know if you like or don't like something when you haven't tried it?

And don't you know that drugs are bad, mkay? I like to be in control of my own behaviour. I better not don't need to experiment with drugs to find out that I like them won't like them.
 

tibby

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Well not necessarily just other people's views but just also to know for yourself. I want to know. Curiousity.
 

Halla74

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Well not necessarily just other people's views but just also to know for yourself. I want to know. Curiousity.

Curiousity is what killed the cat...
...but satisfaction is what brought him back.

:cheese:
 

Sentura

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I always think to myself that I have to try something before I judge it. I'll do things that aren't even "me" to get a perspective of things, for example I have always had a negative view of drugs and mind altering substances but I wanted to try them just to see what all these other people were feeling. I do a lot of bad stuff just to get the perspective of another person.

yeap. with anything. with death too, eventually...
 

OrangeAppled

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No, because I can look at others and learn from their mistakes. Some things are not worth the risks either. I have moral boundaries as well.
 

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Well not necessarily just other people's views but just also to know for yourself. I want to know. Curiousity.

Curiousity is one of the driving forces of my life. While I value my inquisitive nature quite highly, it has led me into some morally dubious situations in the past. I'm generally quite a cautious person, but sometimes I just throw caution to the wind and leap into something wholeheartedly.
 

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Yes, I do this as well. I will try almost anything once. :newwink:
 

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I always think to myself that I have to try something before I judge it. I'll do things that aren't even "me" to get a perspective of things, for example I have always had a negative view of drugs and mind altering substances but I wanted to try them just to see what all these other people were feeling. I do a lot of bad stuff just to get the perspective of another person.

Please tell me you've never killed anyone. ;)

So far, I haven't been inclined to think that way. I might have felt like doing something just to get a perspective on things, but the rational side usually stops me. I really hate the rational side sometimes.
 

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I want to know. Curiousity.
No, because I can look at others and learn from their mistakes. Some things are not worth the risks either. I have moral boundaries as well.

I feel a mix of both. Somethings, like drugs, I don't feel like I need to try, even though I'm naturally curious, simply because I don't need drugs to know what addiction and substance abuse and hanging out with a bad crowd are like. I know those already, so I'm okay simulating some experiences with appropriate mixing and matching.

Also, some experiences clearly have no benefit to me because I already understand exactly what I would have had to painstakingly derive in order to to render the whole of it unnecessary for repetition. There's no point throwing a pretty ring into a puddle of muddy water and going to look for it if it's already in my hand and I know that.

Good for you for embracing new situations though. :D
 

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I definitely have that mindset, when it comes to a new activity, TV shows, etc. Some people are so intent on disliking things that they never even tried themselves. On one hand, you might have an idea you won't like something because you know your interests. But I get confused when someone firmly stands that they dislike something that they haven't tried themselves, or they haven't tried anything vaguely close.

I'm reluctant to give opinions on things that I have little experience with. I do have my limits with the types of things I try, I wouldn't try something daredevilish or things that come with a risk of death, I have an idea of what genres I like with TV. But I'm generally opened to trying new things to see if I like them. There have been things I have tried out of curiosity.
 

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Yes. I might hate it and be highly critical of it later, but it's at least worth trying before judging.
 

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I always think to myself that I have to try something before I judge it. I'll do things that aren't even "me" to get a perspective of things, for example I have always had a negative view of drugs and mind altering substances but I wanted to try them just to see what all these other people were feeling. I do a lot of bad stuff just to get the perspective of another person.

Try shooting yourself in the foot and tell me if it hurts.
 

Maou

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I always think to myself that I have to try something before I judge it. I'll do things that aren't even "me" to get a perspective of things, for example I have always had a negative view of drugs and mind altering substances but I wanted to try them just to see what all these other people were feeling. I do a lot of bad stuff just to get the perspective of another person.

Every god damn day of my life. While I am generally a theoretical person, if an opportunity presents itself to me. I indulge.
 

Sacrophagus

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*shoots self in the foot* it hurts.... :cry:

For fuck's sake. Not you.

Come here.


*licks her wound*

This taste. Not bad at all.

*shoots her in the other foot*

I will enjoy this.
 

Abcdenfp

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For fuck's sake. Not you.

Come here.


*licks her wound*

This taste. Not bad at all.

*shoots her in the other foot*

I will enjoy this.

*stares directly into your eyes and shoots left hand*

lol what are you going to do with me :hug:
 

Peter Deadpan

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Everything I do is inherently me, even if I don't like it or criticize myself after the fact. You are no different.
 

Sacrophagus

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*stares directly into your eyes and shoots left hand*

lol what are you going to do with me :hug:


Luck you. It's a good thing I have everything to stop the bleeding.


*chooses to watch her bleed to death instead*
 
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