[INFJ] INFJs and Hate/Revenge

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

I honestly think people really don't realize how damaging it can be. They figure if we live together and it works the next step is marriage! Wrong. I actually don't believe in premarital sex either.

ahhhhhhhhh.......!! la luz.................!

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

I know a little how you live. Not really my thing. No offense.

you referring to my being poly? or having occasional 3somes? haha. no offense taken. why does it even matter one way or the other?

 

[Synarch]

you referring to my being poly? or having occasional 3somes? haha. no offense taken. why does it even matter one way or the other?

It doesn't to you. Obviously.

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

It doesn't to you. Obviously.

oh, synarch. you must be tired from fucking off at work, eh? is that the best you've got?

 

[entropie]

you referring to my being poly? or having occasional 3somes? haha. no offense taken. why does it even matter one way or the other?

you are having occasional 3somes ? Ouh my, why aint I livin in Americah !

 

[Synarch]

oh, synarch. you must be tired from fucking off at work, eh? is that the best you've got?

I just don't know where to start with you. What can I say? Whatever floats your boat? Whatever makes you happy? But, I doubt it would make anyone happy.

 

[Lauren Ashley]

By definition both marrying before 25 AND cohabitation are two factors that contribute to a greater likelihood of divorece down the road.

Why 25?

 

[entropie]

I just don't know where to start with you. What can I say? Whatever floats your boat? Whatever makes you happy? But, I doubt it would make anyone happy.

I get what you meant now tho . Dont worry too much tho. I think some things people have to figure out for themselves, now or never

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

I just don't know where to start with you. What can I say? Whatever floats your boat? Whatever makes you happy? But, I doubt it would make anyone happy.

haha. mr logical Ne. i have a lot more Ne than you i guess. and Ti........we were discussing marriage (i thought) and you, once again, turned it into a judgment about *me* and my *lifestyle.*

all i'm saying is you're obviously obsessed with something.......i think now maybe it's sexual deprivation........? no offense intended at you at all. you wouldn't be the first who let morals get in the way of self preservation, especially in the sex realm. but even if i'm wrong, the first paragraph still stands.

 

[entropie]

haha. mr logical Ne. i have a lot more Ne than you i guess. and Ti........we were discussing marriage (i thought) and you, once again, turned it into a judgment about *me* and my *lifestyle.*

Logically spoken this would mean you are kinda receptable to be influenced by his Ne

 

[Synarch]

haha. mr logical Ne. i have a lot more Ne than you i guess. and Ti........we were discussing marriage (i thought) and you, once again, turned it into a judgment about *me* and my *lifestyle.*

all i'm saying is you're obviously obsessed with something.......i think now maybe it's sexual deprivation........? no offense intended at you at all. you wouldn't be the first who let morals get in the way of self preservation, especially in the sex realm. but even if i'm wrong, the first paragraph still stands.

Fair enough. I will drop the issue. You know where I stand.

As far as your second part, I don't follow. Sexual deprivation? Explain.

 

[entropie]

Ya explain I am recording it

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

Fair enough. I will drop the issue. You know where I stand.

As far as your second part, I don't follow. Sexual deprivation? Explain.

i inferred from your previous post, you were waiting for marriage to resume sex. but, like i said, i could be wrong here. maybe you just meant OTHERS should not engage in premarital sex.....??

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

Fair enough. I will drop the issue. You know where I stand.

thank gosh. i was beginning to wonder if i'd be able to sleep tonight.

 

[Synarch]

i inferred from your previous post, you were waiting for marriage to resume sex. but, like i said, i could be wrong here. maybe you just meant OTHERS should not engage in premarital sex.....??

I would like to. I don't think it's a big sacrifice and would likely mean a short engagement. Both good things.

I think sex should be sacred. Between man and wife. Is it really so difficult to wait? You can still make out and everything else. Why is this so revolutionary now?

 

[Synarch]

thank gosh. i was beginning to wonder if i'd be able to sleep tonight.

You want respect, but you crawl on your belly.

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

I would like to. I don't think it's a big sacrifice and would likely mean a short engagement. Both good things.

I think sex should be sacred. Between man and wife. Is it really so difficult to wait? You can still make out and everything else. Why is this so revolutionary now?

meh, i dunno. i agree with you to a degree. depends on how long you wait and how hardcore you are about it. sex is a natural part of being human, so if you deny yourself sex for too long, or if you can't find someone you want to spend the 'rest of your life with' but you can find someone you want to sleep with, well, you can follow my line of thinking.......i think abstinence is unhealthy after a period of time. to link the two together is like linking religion with government. it just doesn't always work.

wish you the best though. i love talking/philosophizing about sex.

 

[entropie]

meh, i dunno. i agree with you to a degree. depends on how long you wait and how hardcore you are about it. sex is a natural part of being human, so if you deny yourself sex for too long, or if you can't find someone you want to spend the 'rest of your life with' but you can find someone you want to sleep with, well, you can follow my line of thinking.......i think abstinence is unhealthy after a period of time. to link the two together is like linking religion with government. it just doesn't always work.

wish you the best though. i love talking/philosophizing about sex.

Wish you the best aswell, cu

 

[Synarch]

meh, i dunno. i agree with you to a degree. depends on how long you wait and how hardcore you are about it. sex is a natural part of being human, so if you deny yourself sex for too long, or if you can't find someone you want to spend the 'rest of your life with' but you can find someone you want to sleep with, well, you can follow my line of thinking.......i think abstinence is unhealthy after a period of time. to link the two together is like linking religion with government. it just doesn't always work.

wish you the best though. i love talking/philosophizing about sex.

Sex confuses things. You need to build the connection without sex influencing the decision making process BEYOND where it should be placed in the hierarchy.

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

Sex confuses things. You need to build the connection without sex influencing the decision making process BEYOND where it should be placed in the hierarchy.

it can for some. are you answering my question? i don't want to retype it.

also, my intense relationships developed after messing around, as i've said on another thread. so, i'd personally disagree with the aforementioned statement.