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[INFJ] Where to find an INFJ?

Udog

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Those are good places to find me. In a lab, bookstore, or library. Ta-da!

How resentful (if at all) would you be by default if someone started talking to you in these areas?
 

Lexicon

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How resentful (if at all) would you be by default if someone started talking to you in these areas?

Personally I would feel a tad murderous.
[unexpressedly so, of course.]
 

Udog

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Hmm.... I think ENTPs like that. So it all works out! :D
 

Lauren Ashley

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How resentful (if at all) would you be by default if someone started talking to you in these areas?

If I'm not working in the lab and if I'm generally not too immersed in what I'm doing, I wouldn't be resentful at all. I'd welcome it. I meet other INs at the bookstore all the time.
 

jenocyde

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Hmm.... I think ENTPs like that. So it all works out! :D

Your damn straight!!! :wubbie:

But we're the same way if you interrupt my thought process at a bookstore. I usually go there for serious business time, not to socialize.
 

iwakar

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Regrettably we're often home. Alone.

With our favorite book/movie/electronic gadget/pet/snack.
 

Little Linguist

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Just for the record, I love going to the library and bookstore, too. In fact, I used to hang out there as a kid. Now, I don't have much time to do that anymore, but I can't resist stopping in the bookstore at the train station every day.

*shrugs* :blush: I don't know if that's necessarily an INXX thing....
 

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Just for the record, I love going to the library and bookstore, too. In fact, I used to hang out there as a kid. Now, I don't have much time to do that anymore, but I can't resist stopping in the bookstore at the train station every day.

*shrugs* :blush: I don't know if that's necessarily an INXX thing....

You are married !! :D
 

OrangeAppled

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Look for people with stiff posture, soft eyes, and a warm smile that brightens their face.

This is a good distinction from INFPs too. I think INFPs are more like noodles & hunched over squirrels.
 

entropie

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Ya, you would call the police if a burglar would enter your house :D
 

jenocyde

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I just got back from that tennis date. I felt at ease with him and he is a very good opponent. At first he was letting me win, but after sensing my annoyance, he actually brought it and then we had fun. He took losing pretty well. Afterward, we were talking and having a good laugh. He seemed nervous but easygoing. He told me that he knew about MBTI and that he was definitely an INFJ. After finding out I'm an ENTP, he looked deflated. I pushed him to tell me why and he said because he finds us to be flaky, unreachable and "slippery", although he said I didn't seem like that. Then he asked what I wanted to eat. After a long awkward pause, I told him that I had other plans and didn't realize he wanted to hang out all night. At which point, he looked at me like I just confirmed all his fears. I didn't understand that but I guess we're just from 2 different worlds. I still don't get why he was so taken aback. But it was a fun match all the same - we'll see what happens...
 

Lauren Ashley

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He told me that he knew about MBTI and that he was definitely an INFJ.
:)
After finding out I'm an ENTP, he looked deflated. I pushed him to tell me why and he said because he finds us to be flaky, unreachable and "slippery"
:ninja:

Then he asked what I wanted to eat. After a long awkward pause, I told him that I had other plans and didn't realize he wanted to hang out all night. At which point, he looked at me like I just confirmed all his fears. I didn't understand that but I guess we're just from 2 different worlds.
I completely get him :yes:
 
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