Another problem is my brain is predominately right brained, and my spelling is in accordance to a words sound leading to misspelling sometimes. One example, I like the sound paradoxal, rather than paradoxical leading me to spell it the former. It just feels correct for some reason. My reading comprehension is general alright, but I tend not to focus much on individual "words". It is like I would rather create my own language.
I don't know, are there spelling police on these forums? I haven't been here long enough to see that happen yet. I don't think it's so big of a problem. I mean, really. The INTP's I know are awful at spelling and grammar, but I don't pay attention to that because they have a lot of important stuff to say. I'm sure you do too. So what if you misspell some things or have your own little language? It's quirky, right? Quirky is fun. Quirky makes my world go round. I suppose it's time to break out the cliches and say if you can just be yourself, plenty of people will probably love hanging around you just because you're individually you.
I wonder how I would relate with INTJs however?
Well, if it's worth anything, here's my INFP perspective. I have a dear friend who is an INTJ. A few years ago, we'd have probably hated each other. He's blunt and rude, but incredibly intelligent and absolutely hilarious. I think the reason we're friends is that I had to learn to take him with a grain of salt, too, just like the INTP's but even more so. I was able to become friends with him by:
A) being open minded
B) being a little sarcastic
C) being unwilling to trust anything he said and constantly challenging him
D) refusing to be offended by his rude comments
E) hanging back and not trying to force our friendship
Now, in between the rude comments and mean jokes (which I sort of find endearing) he actually talks to me about personal things, and I think this is a great honor. The only way I survived the shock of his dramatically different personality was by commanding myself to take
nothing personally, getting in that sarcasm zone, and giving him the same shit he gave me. It was kind of fun, actually, once I got over myself and my insecurities. Now, when I see other INTJ's post on these forums, instead of being offended or angry like I used to be, I chuckle because I'm reminded of my friend. I think a big part of it is just getting to know how they think and who they are, and once you're familiar with it you can embrace their little eccentricities and find them amusing instead of offensive.
Of course, I'm not you, so who knows what works for you! Just figured I'd pass that along in case any of it is helpful. Or interesting. Or, if nothing else, I'm working toward increasing my post numbers. Mwah hah.
The obvious answer. I thought it was code for something else.
