Cronkle
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- Mar 21, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
thanks for the replies, very interesting. I have indeed noticed that he does not "open up" to everyone even though he is super nice to everyone. In fact I read somewhere that of all the extroverts, ENFJ's are the most reserved about revealing themselves. I'm realizing that ENFJ"s have a need to bring out the best in others.
I am even a bit envious of my ENFJ, watching how quickly he can draw people towards him and how he can talk to everyone. TO an introvert, it looks like magic. Though at other times I notice he can be quite abrupt with others (though not rude). Is that an ENFJ thing too?
I guess the other part of my confusion is that I have a crush on him, but he has told me he doesn't have romantic feelings towards me. Yet, he he kind of acts like my boyfriend which I guess is the ENFJ warmth.
Totally abrupt. I know what I want and I go for it. When things get in the way, I find the most quick way back to get whatever I'm intensely focused upon getting.
Often I'm like yeah, yeah, yeah, get to the point. But I would never say that. I wonder if the (polite) brusqueness is a manifestation of the J in me?