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[ENFP] What attracts an ENFP male and how do you keep him?

Dreamer

Potential is My Addiction
Joined
Jul 26, 2015
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ENFP
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I'm a female, but here's my two cents.

We ENFPs are stereotyped as flighty. This isn't exactly true, but I know I tend to go MIA for periods of time from the lives of people I care about (unless they really make an effort to be around me). I just tend to get distracted and fly off in a million directions. It's not that I dislike or am angry with people or that I don't care, I was just sidetracked. I will eventually float back though it may take quite a bit of time.

As far as most of their friends being girls, I wouldn't worry all that much. Some people just seem to click with the opposite gender better. A good chunk of my friends are guys, but that doesn't mean I would be unfaithful in a relationship. I'm just really friendly and get along with males and females equally well. And for many of my male friends, they tend to be like brothers to me.

Yup yup :D
 

Borfass

New member
Joined
Jun 10, 2018
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1
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
7W8
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
be natural and have a bit of patience with them, not all of us have developed a crazy good Te so we take longer to think about an object,person or enviroment if we cant relate.try to find things that he loves and likes( try simple things like a food or beverage that he is really enjoying in the plain view or an activity,something that will show him that you put effort in this , he will do the rest =)))
ps:sorry for diacritics im too lazy to change my configuration keyboard
 
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