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[ENFP] How do ENFPs show affection/interest?

G-Virus

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yeah...i'm going to say when she thinks she likes you she'll probably be very talkative and flirty but...after she knows she likes you...she might be uncharacteristically shy and untalkative...what a funny thing that is...i had forgotten :)

Man, such mixed messages can confuse even the best of mentalists out there. So sad in its own right.
 

Lady_X

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oh you'll still know i think haha

eta: ahhh!! why do i feel compelled to share with you people!! i don't really like to share!! haha
 

Kaizer

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seems as if ENFPs are either emotion sponges or emotional drains or even both. true?
 

Lady_X

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i can't speak from that perspective...i have no idea...hope not...doesn't sound great.
 

G-Virus

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oh you'll still know i think haha

eta: ahhh!! why do i feel compelled to share with you people!! i don't really like to share!! haha

You share because we enjoy your perspective. Is that really not enough?
 

Kaizer

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i can't speak from that perspective...i have no idea...hope not...doesn't sound great.
erin, not you .. I seen ze jpeg ;) .. wait! thats signature ENFP!
 

Jack Flak

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erin, not you .. I seen ze jpeg ;) .. wait! thats signature ENFP!
zis one?

funny-pictures-kitten-fell-off-chair.jpg
 

Lady_X

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erin, not you .. I seen ze jpeg ;) .. wait! thats signature ENFP!

wait!! what?? i'm a lil fuzzy headed at the moment....t a l k s l o w
sorry...i'm half asleep
 

Kaizer

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wait!! what?? i'm a lil fuzzy headed at the moment....t a l k s l o w
sorry...i'm half asleep

oh m'bad.. all yous hads ta say was.. well say it
we talk fuzzy talk so ummm.. just help us back onto our perch
 

Lady_X

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okay...well i did really wanna know what you were sayin...but that's alright.
 

SillySapienne

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If I am interested in you, I will pay hyper-attention to you, especially when I can do so without being seen by you while doing it, in other words, I will study and observe you and speculate who you are, and why you are who you are and why you do/behave in the ways you do, etc.

When I am intrigued, surprised or challenged by you and your existence, unless I am entirely not physically attracted to you, I am "hooked". I love figuring complex people out, and I am attracted to complex people.

If I am interested in pursuing a potential relationship with you, I will make this interest known, by paying you more attention and seeking out your attention. Also, at some point, I will flat out express the interest I have for you to you.

When I feel all :wub: for someone, I am and can be incredibly affectionate!!!

When I like a guy, I like making him feel good, and especially delight in caressing and, or massaging him in such a way so as to make him feel more relaxed, or ..... ;)
 

dearie.b

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When I feel all :wub: for someone, I am and can be incredibly affectionate!!!

When I like a guy, I like making him feel good, and especially delight in caressing and, or massaging him in such a way so as to make him feel more relaxed, or ..... ;)



:wubbie:

Yes that's the body language of my ENFP. I think he wanted to make me feel
good physically. I can see that he worked really hard on it and he asked me constantly what I wanted and how i felt.

BUT... he did this after telling me not to move to his city cos he's not in the head space for relationship, can't give up his hedonistic lifestyle, want to focus on work etc etc. So his caressing and ... end up making me feel bad about myself.

I feel either that he doesn't really care about me or he doesn't know what he want. So I've decided to leave him alone.
 

SillySapienne

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:wubbie:

Yes that's the body language of my ENFP. I think he wanted to make me feel
good physically. I can see that he worked really hard on it and he asked me constantly what I wanted and how i felt.

BUT... he did this after telling me not to move to his city cos he's not in the head space for relationship, can't give up his hedonistic lifestyle, want to focus on work etc etc. So his caressing and ... end up making me feel bad about myself.

I feel either that he doesn't really care about me or he doesn't know what he want. So I've decided to leave him alone.
Hmm, I am not him, nor do I have testicles, so I don't know.

Yeah, forget about him, it doesn't seem like a fully reciprocal relationship, and he is obviously not meeting your needs, nor making you feel good about yourself.

When an ENFP really likes you, we make it our job and derive joy in making you as happy and content as possible.

Oh, and...

:hug:
 

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i am an ENFP, and i NEVER show that i am interested. matter of fact, i try to hide it
 
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