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[ENFP] Why Do you love ENFP's?

raz

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Razz, it sounds like you're inviting us to go shopping with you! :D

You forget how easy it is to do things on the internet. Usually the physical attraction is the sole reason I'm attracted to ENFPs in real life.
 

aufs klo

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ooooooooo!!! let's get some unprocessed dark chocolate and steep that in with the coffee grinds, THEN add frangelico! and for the movie... you like old french films? 'Rules of the Game' is sounding pretty good right about now
 

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^^ see you know how to do it...haha...of course chocolate!! why didn't i think of chocolate!!??
 

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Usually the physical attraction is the sole reason I'm attracted to ENFPs in real life.

Yeah, I can't blame you. I mean, who wouldn't want to have sex with such passionate people?
 

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You forget how easy it is to do things on the internet. Usually the physical attraction is the sole reason I'm attracted to ENFPs in real life.

So what's our appeal online then? :devil:

Oh and guys, chocolate means I'm in. I say we organize a chocolate fondue and hold a slumber party after the shopping..:drool:

Should we invite the INTP as well or are we just driving the ISTJ insane?
 

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i don't know what you guys are doing but i was hangin out with my friend aufs and we were going shopping and stuff.. :D
 

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Tss, I believe Raz invited us all along :p
 

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I'll go with erinavery, but only if we're handcuffed together the entire time.:devil:
 

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I'll go with erinavery, but only if we're handcuffed together the entire time.:devil:

Oh well, I guess I'll check to see if Aimahn feels like a slumber party then...
 

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But, in regard to why ENFPs are appealing online...

Anyone can be appealing to talk to online. It's when you have to talk to someone face to face, listen to their voice, or interact with them partially on their terms that the incessant urge to tear their head off or walk away might come out.

But, usually when I go to the mall, I just have one or two specific reasons I'm going there. I go in and out. Heaven forbid I continue to walk around the building without a goal in mind.
 

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But, in regard to why ENFPs are appealing online...

Anyone can be appealing to talk to online. It's when you have to talk to someone face to face, listen to their voice, or interact with them partially on their terms that the incessant urge to tear their head off or walk away might come out.

But, usually when I go to the mall, I just have one or two specific reasons I'm going there. I go in and out. Heaven forbid I continue to walk around the building without a goal in mind.


LOL, ok well, at least you're honest
 

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yeah...i occasional want to rip peoples limbs off and beat them with them too and i totally never just wander around the mall.
 

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I am guessing it has to do with the Ne factor, and how well I mesh with that, but ENFP's are the one type I've always had the most... "chemistry" with, speaking in a platonic/playful friend manner, 'cause that's what they are to me--playful friends. We can make up the funniest jokes AND laugh endlessly week after week about the dumbest jokes and it just never gets old. It's never really a competition with them, which gives me the comfort level to be myself. I can't be like that with most T-types.

INFPs are nice and I like them but there's usually an undercurrent of misunderstanding, or competition surrounding that; at least that's been my past experience with some. I don't know enough ENFJs nor INFJs to speak to them although one of my best friends is INFJ (formerly thought he was INFP) but that interaction is more deeply personal & serious than playful. Two of my three IRL ENFP friends have been roommates with me for ~6 months each, and it was always a good dynamic between us.
 

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yeah...i occasional want to rip peoples limbs off and beat them with them too and i totally never just wander around the mall.

Oh see this aspect of ENFPs seems awesome. Where do I find you people. I swear I'm surrounded by SJs and idiots at work and in classes.
 

raz

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yeah...i occasional want to rip peoples limbs off and beat them with them too and i totally never just wander around the mall.

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