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[ENFJ] You know you're an ENFJ when...

Leysing

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Because all the others already have a thread like this.

(I tried to put something oh-so-intelligent here but all I had in mind was more like "lame".)
 

Brendan

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... the only time you can say something intelligent and wise is when you're not trying.
 

lorkan

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Talking fast and constantly taking back what you've said.
 
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351Stang

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My ENFJ mom is always sticking her foot in her mouth but she rises to the top of every job she's ever had.
 

The Third Rider

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When you just said something stupid and everyone noticed that you said something stupid and all that you do is just stand there and smile.....
 

Domino

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Simultaneously kissing/hugging/moving-heaven-and-earth and cursing out a loved one.
 

Domino

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People do that outside of cheesy movies?

It's pretty schizophrenic. The cheese doesn't help. :D

One Booyalab, served hot with some provolone! *bangs the desk bell*
 

spirilis

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It's pretty schizophrenic. The cheese doesn't help. :D

One Booyalab, served hot with some provolone! *bangs the desk bell*

The question is, will you move heaven and earth for a sandwich? :D
 

proteanmix

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You say at least half of these things every other day.

  • "Oh, you're not pregnant!? I'm sooooo sorry, I'm sorry. Shit." *nervous laughter*
  • "Yeah you can use my forks" One week later all of your forks are gone.
  • "I love you pissy alley!! You've got so many better stories than I do!"
  • "I didn't mean that your hair color looks like the outside of a sweet potato, it looks like the inside. It's russet! Russet's a beautiful color! No, no it's not brassy!!"
  • "Well, yes, I'm sorry, and I totally understand you, but that's kinda unacceptable."
  • "I'm not UNcalm!!"
  • "Now that I've thought about what I said, there's a chance I may have been wrong but I still think I'm at least partially right. Maybe even 55% right. Which is still mostly right although I agree not totally."
  • "You made me hit you."
  • "Your ass is ripe unto maturation. Yes, that's a compliment. Ugh, nevermind."
  • "Oooh, I hope they burn so I can dance around the flames."
  • "I'm not demanding I just know how I like things. Oh gawd, I hope they don't spit in my food."
  • "Well the please was more or less a courtesy, not a real option. :)"
  • "Awww, you're so precious".:hug:
  • "I hope there's no fecal matter on my lemon rind. Oh shit, did I say that out loud?"
 

Domino

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"You made me hit you" - LOL!!!


Get out. Out of my head. Now.
 

Domino

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I also tend to qualify everything (repeated back by astonished or hysterical family members) with "Well, I did/do/am..."
 

Kaizer

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when you say "Don't be a drama queen" to an INTP! :D

disclaimer (the patently obvious one) : we're terribly fond of our ENFJs
 

A Schnitzel

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When you decide that the solution to your current stress problems involves taking on more work.
 

Desperado44

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When you enter a room of 50 people and within minutes know the most vulnerable person in the crowd.

When you cannot understand how anyone can overlook the nuances of compassion and empathy.

When you take care of others more than yourself.

When you grow resentful from all the giving you do; without any in return.
 

The Third Rider

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When you enter a room of 50 people and within minutes know the most vulnerable person in the crowd.

When you cannot understand how anyone can overlook the nuances of compassion and empathy.

When you take care of others more than yourself.

When you grow resentful from all the giving you do; without any in return.


Damn......are you stalking me by any chance?:huh:
 

Desperado44

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Damn......are you stalking me by any chance?:huh:

NO...but I can if you like? :)

I could make a loooooong list of things I realize about my ENFJ self.

My friends think I'm psychic....LOL.....I've never been able to explain to anyone how I can 'feel' what is going on with people....even in a crowd. Its nearly impossible to lie to me.

Must be why I have so much trouble finding a nice girl to settle down with.
 

proteanmix

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NO...but I can if you like? :)

I could make a loooooong list of things I realize about my ENFJ self.

My friends think I'm psychic....LOL.....I've never been able to explain to anyone how I can 'feel' what is going on with people....even in a crowd. Its nearly impossible to lie to me.

Must be why I have so much trouble finding a nice girl to settle down with.

Do you think you have the whole knight in shining armor thing going on?

I've eased up out of the role of saving people over the past few years. It got too expensive.
 

Desperado44

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Do you think you have the whole knight in shining armor thing going on?

I've eased up out of the role of saving people over the past few years. It got too expensive.

YES YES YES!!!!

I have it BAD....and I went to therapy to figure out WHY. I will ALWAYS find the girl that 'needs' me in a crowd. I'm never attracted to the ones that don't.......and I am so sick of it.

That is amazing that you clued into that.....
 
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