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    Quote Originally Posted by Ingrid in grids View Post
    If she says no, then I'd go with the no, and not your read on the body language.

    Goodness, I hope she's not flashing her ankles too.
    Well I did went with the no and went on my way afterwards but only after I showed to her I was ok with rejection and she didn't have to feel bad and it seemed like signals skyrocketed after that.

    Lol she has shorts on.

    Earlier today in class she was rocking her leg back and forth in my direction.

    Maybe I just answered my own question but if you feel absolutely sure...

    Maybe she is attracted but just needs more time.
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    Oh and super random thought today. I woke up and I was thinking all the possibilities of what my dream could mean and I looked in the mirror and I had Ne eyes. Lol it was super cute.



    My eyes for like less than 30 seconds looked like that. I kid you not. The (b) one.

    I can't make it on purpose though. So it definitely must've been a rarer thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever View Post
    Well I did went with the no and went on my way afterwards but only after I showed to her I was ok with rejection and she didn't have to feel bad and it seemed like signals skyrocketed after that.

    Lol she has shorts on.

    Earlier today in class she was rocking her leg back and forth in my direction.

    Maybe I just answered my own question but if you feel absolutely sure...

    Maybe she is attracted but just needs more time.
    If you take wearing shorts and rocking her knee in your direction as skyrocketing signs of interest, it's probably confirmation bias on your end. Listen to what she says.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever View Post
    How do I approach/respond to a girl who has positive body language signs all over but yet says the opposite thing? Is she playing hard to get?
    (Says no to date but keeps exposing her neck by tossing her hair aside; looks over her shoulder; every time I look at her she has her eyes light up and smile; twirling her hair but she doesn't sound sarcastic she tells me everything she wants to do for a stranger)

    does she she think I'm physically attractive but undateable?!

    (Note this is neither the ENFJ/INFJ women who I have mentioned earlier)

    I dunno if I were a lady and weren't attracted to a guy I wouldn't expose my neck and stare at him with such interest)

    Maybe she just loves to flirt??

    What I'm thinking is after she said no and she saw that I was used to rejection she was changing her mind and wanted me to pop the question with an idea assertively?

    I believe she is ESFP/ESFJ likes to hang with jocks it seems, super pretty face. And she's pretty toned.

    Says she wants to be a nurse.
    Trust me, I'm a girl and I don't understand that crap either I say 'yes' when I mean 'yes', and 'no' when I mean 'no'.

    I'd say just walk away the next time she "refuses", and see if she goes after you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ingrid in grids View Post
    If you take wearing shorts and rocking her knee in your direction as skyrocketing signs of interest, it's probably confirmation bias on your end. Listen to what she says.
    Well I think you're misreading me on that one. I'm just saying the ones in parentheses were in quick succession the last one I said was just I remembered earlier that day.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Morning Star View Post
    Trust me, I'm a girl and I don't understand that crap either I say 'yes' when I mean 'yes', and 'no' when I mean 'no'.

    I'd say just walk away the next time she "refuses", and see if she goes after you.
    I mean while I do believe some women say what they mean to say there are others who tell you one thing and want you to do another. I mean I see guys do the opposite to what their gf says all the time and she never looks pissed or hurt.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever View Post
    Oh and super random thought today. I woke up and I was thinking all the possibilities of what my dream could mean and I looked in the mirror and I had Ne eyes. Lol it was super cute.



    My eyes for like less than 30 seconds looked like that. I kid you not. The (b) one.

    I can't make it on purpose though. So it definitely must've been a rarer thing.
    Sauce pls
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kierva View Post
    Sauce pls
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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever View Post
    tyvm for sauce, would u like more ketchup
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kierva View Post
    tyvm for sauce, would u like more ketchup
    Yes pls
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