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    Now I've ate a KFC... I just gotta finish this...
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    @whatever needs to stop chasing bees! They sting!
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    Music provides one of the clearest examples of a much deeper relation between mathematics and human experience.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rico View Post
    Haha np.

    I just had like 4 or 5 bits of chicken and some chips
    Delicioso.

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    I think actually practicing Fe has made me more wise than ever.
    I am dripping in Finesse.
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    Teach me how to Fe
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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever View Post
    Delicioso.

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    I think actually practicing Fe has made me more wise than ever.
    Yeah, same with practicing the functions I tend not to use.

    It opens up a whole gateway of wisdom for oneself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rico View Post
    Yeah, same with practicing the functions I tend not to use.

    It opens up a whole gateway of wisdom for oneself.
    True, I believe the opposite of the way you take in energy is the most important. So the aux-function.
    Quote Originally Posted by 21lux View Post
    Teach me how to Fe
    1. Love yourself.
    2. Abide by social norms, which I know it's harder for you. If I ever did become a visible transgender/transexual I knew in my lifetime or earlier years I would've fell down from discrimination. Plus I am so other-oriented I couldn't even feel comfortable with my partner touching me like a woman. I couldn't live with how my parents would see me. And I don't like the advice of "eff you to my parents either because I respect them". Or you could abide by a transgender community albeit very small. Oh and anyone could throw in for #2 don't make me the authority on this, I just find that this works for me.
    3. Knowing you visibly fit in, feelings of anxiety and self-consciousness disappear and when you're back home you can let go of the facade and be you with your friends/loved ones.
    4. Be selfless, always act true to the other regardless of objective truth. Subjective truth is what matters most to get another person to like you.
    5. Let it unfold.
    I am dripping in Finesse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Forever View Post
    1. Love yourself.
    2. Abide by social norms, which I know it's harder for you. If I ever did become a visible transgender/transexual I knew in my lifetime or earlier years I would've fell down from discrimination. Plus I am so other-oriented I couldn't even feel comfortable with my partner touching me like a woman. I couldn't live with how my parents would see me. And I don't like the advice of "eff you to my parents either because I respect them". Or you could abide by a transgender community albeit very small. Oh and anyone could throw in for #2 don't make me the authority on this, I just find that this works for me.
    3. Knowing you visibly fit in, feelings of anxiety and self-consciousness disappear and when you're back home you can let go of the facade and be you with your friends/loved ones.
    4. Be selfless, always act true to the other regardless of objective truth. Subjective truth is what matters most to get another person to like you.
    5. Let it unfold.
    I can't do #2 because what I believe and am comfortable with > social norms always, and I won't go against that, but the others maybe. I already do #3 to an extent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rico View Post
    Haha np.

    I just had like 4 or 5 bits of chicken and some chips
    So you're still alive to fight another day, eh?
    “Oh, what a tangled web we weave...when first we practice to deceive.”
    ― Walter Scott, Marmion

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    Quote Originally Posted by 21lux View Post
    I can't do #2 because what I believe and am comfortable with > social norms always, and I won't go against that, but the others maybe. I already do #3 to an extent.
    That's wonderful then. I just say that #2 is a preliminary step after all. If you don't feel uncomfortable around a group of strangers. Then the rest is do-able. People are comfortable with those comfortable with themselves. Just don't over-dress flashy or anything then, which I don't think you do anyway.
    I am dripping in Finesse.
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