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    Quote Originally Posted by murkrow View Post
    I think the biggest problem with staying mad at an ENFP will be when they realize you're mad.

    They'll probably just laugh at you and give you a hug or something.
    Or inform you that you are mad, and that they will talk to you once you have become more calm/collected.

    Quote Originally Posted by Galusha View Post
    In all of the situations, it was fueled over emotional unreliability (I'm big on consistency). Nothing is so distressing to me as getting support from friends and family pulled out from under my feet, and ENFPs, usually unintentionally (I hope), do this annoyingly often.
    Is it possible (though seems unlikely here) that you were in some way quietly offending the ENFPs in question? Maybe they just happened to get fed up and cut you loose at a bad time?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    *steps aside*
    *watches you fall*
    *mortabunt takes notes*.

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    *sees fluffy*. Advises: Next time, distract her by pointing in a random dirrection that you see a cute puppy.
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    It's hard. Lol
    I've tried. And failed pathetically.
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    and release from darkness for the prisoners..
    ..to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes..
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    If they've hit a personal nerve of mine, oh easy. At that point I can stay mad at anyone, doesn't matter the type. Though, admittedly, not for very long as I tend to forget that strongly felt emotion over time and move on completely, without any lingering disgust either. It's also on a scale with me and how deep they've emotionally hurt me, if I was vulnerable, etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xXMariahXx View Post
    It's hard. Lol
    I've tried. And failed pathetically.

    I'm really looking forward to national "replace your ENFJ family members with entirely new ENFJs" day this year.
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    I think it's more of a get mad at them all over again for something new kind of timeline. Not a lot of grudges, but lots of separate occasions of mad.
    You hem me in -- behind and before;
    you have laid your hand upon me.
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    too lofty for me to attain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starry View Post
    I'm really looking forward to national "replace your ENFJ family members with entirely new ENFJs" day this year.
    Heh. You're trying.

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    If they keep invading my boundaries... that's about it. Ha

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    I can stay mad at anyone of any type if I try hard and believe in myself.

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