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  1. #11
    Upstanding Bird The Penguin's Avatar
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    I was extremely aggressive and confrontational of anything I didn't like when I was a kid. Now I give up before I even try to fight. I withdraw and isolate myself cause I'm convinced it's gonna be pointless. I also shut myself off from as many people as possible because people are just rude, and all I want is respect. That's something I can't let go of, I always just want respect and love. Why? Cause I give it to people I value, people I want to be friends with and form a deep connection with. Experience proves that nobody cares. Cause I've done that all my life and now I'm alone. So yeah . . . people just suck, even though I'm a really good guy, everyone is determined to paint me as evil. That's why I relate to villains. The "bad" characters with depth, none of them see themselves as evil, but everyone else does. I understand that. I respect that.

    anyway - I guess this could be:
    • 1w2 to 1w9 or
    • 8w7 to 8w9 or
    • 3w2 to 3w4
    ESFJ 1w2-6w5-2w3 so/sp


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    No. Anyone who says different is lying.
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    Quote Originally Posted by asynartetic View Post
    I think I was a 9w1 in my youth and young adulthood. More conflict avoidant, more willing to roll over for aggressive people in the interest of keeping the peace. However I’ve become very assertive in my 30s, for example being a lot more outspoken and forceful with superiors at work, standing my ground more in any sort of conflict or argument, not being as afraid to call bullshit when I smell it..
    This is called integration.

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    I've always been 9w8.

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    I am more like a Five in that I don't need lots of relationships and like privacy a lot. But the Three wing comes out in my job when I do presentations.

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    I think yes, especially when mental problems, personality disorders or any changes appear...I believe that even the core type can change in strange cases but not drastically ofc. So yeah, 2w1 might become a 2w3 in my opinion.

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