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    I can eat broccoli. Metis's Avatar
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    Default Member of the Day: April 26, 2018

    The Member of the Day for April 26, 2018 is:

    ~MS*ANGEL~ !


    She is one of the Typology Central members I'd like to get to know better. She comes across as thoughtful, kind, introspective, and candid. I love it that she elected to tell a story for her Member if the Day speech:


    One important thing that I have learned in my life is the power of trust. When I was younger, I used to think that love alone was enough to overcome any obstacles. But experience has taught me otherwise.

    I remember the first time my trust in someone was broken. I was in high school, and I used to spend time on online chats here and there. I had been accused by an online acquaintance of betraying the entire chat group's confidential matters to admins from another website - something which I had never done because of my sense of loyalty and honesty. I was shattered by this, and had to fight for my innocence. I was lucky that this group's admin believed me and let the situation cool down, but after that I started to become more wary of trusting others completely.

    In my real life as well, I've been learning this lesson the hard way. My sister had met a guy almost three years ago who seemed nice - but there was something "off" about him. His smile never looked genuine. But seeing how happy my sister was, I simply brushed it off and eventually got along with him.

    Flash-forward to a year later, and my sister ran away from home with him - hardly six months after our grandmother died. My family and I were still in mourning when this happened, which made the pain in our hearts feel much worse.

    They had no reason to elope, given that Mom and Dad were already discussing their engagement with the guy's parents (we all had agreed that my sister should take the time to complete her career studies first). But they (both my sister and the guy) felt that they couldn't trust our parents to allow them to marry.

    And it didn't stop there. The guy's family got them married without our parents being present (and in our Indian culture, that's a huge deal), because my sister lied to everyone saying that my parents beat her up and locked her in her room without food. (In reality, our parents only scold us, and the day she ran away our mom had kept her dinner on the table as usual.)

    Long story short, they broke our trust in the most devastating way.

    Why am I telling this story openly now? Because I don't want others to go through the same pain I did, just to learn the same lesson. Trust is the most important thing you can give and receive. If you truly love someone, trust him/her first.

    Thanks guys.



    ~MS*ANGEL~
    And did you exchange
    A walk-on part in the war
    For a lead role in a cage?

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    Aw shes so sweet. Good choice!
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    A Gentle Whisper ~MS*ANGEL~'s Avatar
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    Heh, thanks guys
    Princesses may giggle and flirt, but queens get the job done.

    MY BLOGS: https://freestylelines.blogspot.com/, https://tfthdiary.blogspot.com/
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    Congratulations! We’ve interacted a few times and you’re definitely likable. Welcome to our club! We don’t have benefits of any kind but you also don’t have to pay dues.
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    Congratulations!
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    A Gentle Whisper ~MS*ANGEL~'s Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Population: 1 View Post
    Congratulations! We’ve interacted a few times and you’re definitely likable. Welcome to our club! We don’t have benefits of any kind but you also don’t have to pay dues.
    Hahaha are you kidding, that's the best kind of club! Thanks
    Princesses may giggle and flirt, but queens get the job done.

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    Congratulations. You are one of the sweetest members here
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so
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