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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturnal Snowqueen View Post
    I have this motto of, "I never order the same thing twice"(which is pretty true 90% of the time), and it's just so 7-9 of me. I feel like on of those rich girls on TV who say that they never wear the same thing twice. People ask each other what their "order" is, and I'm like, I don't have an order-I have some favorites but not so much I'll get them over and over. And even if I get it again, I have to make a slight moderation to it to make it not feel like I'm not ordering the same thing. All these possibilities, and you just buy the same thing over and over again? What the heckk.
    Loool I've been eating the same exact thing for lunch at school for over four years...
    Chronic "grass is always greener" syndrome
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    Quote Originally Posted by fatgurl View Post
    Loool I've been eating the same exact thing for lunch at school for over four years...
    i am not type 7 about meals at all. haha when i want greek food...i want a specific dish at a specific place...or thai etc etc....i have cravings for certain dishes and i always want that dish when i crave it. i don't have a broad desire for a kind of food and any dish will work. i do always want the whole spread tho...like several appetizers for the table etc...i like lots of different things to sample from
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    Quote Originally Posted by OneTriz View Post
    For types 2,7, and 9, do you guys find "Positive Outlook" a good description of how you feel? Personally I'm a double positive (749) and I don't find it a good description, I wouldn't describe it as me 'always seeing the bright side' but instead, me ignoring the bad side. If I were to describe how it manifests in myself, I would say it's more of an 'Emotionally Avoidant Outlook' thing. I ignore and don't think about emotions I dislike. Like to some people, I am cheerful but I've also gotten a "dude you're so depressing that you're actually making me anxious" from some. I guess that's the 4 fix, Lol.
    Same tri as ya, but different order. Yeah, I don't like the positive outlook label either. I mean, I am a pretty positive person for the short term, but for the long term I'm more a gloom and doom type of person. Even with all my positive outlook thinking, I don't think to myself, "Gotta think positive", more, "Let's be real here." I used to not like the phrase, "It is what it is" because it sounded so cliché and dry, but it does fit my style of thinking. "Emotionally avoidant" does fit me really well-my 4 fix does like me some darkness but it's like a controlled darkness. Like I can't have a whirlwind of rawness and negativity surrounding me, but I like sitting in a corner and reflecting on the soul-shattering parts of my life and how things have changed. Putting on the sad music to amplify things, also watching sad movies so I can immerse myself in their pain. If I stay positive in my day to day life, I know I can avoid absolute chaos, rage, things that turn my world upside down. I don't know what I'm going to brood about in the long term if I keep acting like that huehue, but some things are bound to happen. That's a very 9-ish way of positive outlook I think(and even fits their style of withdrawn triad), but as for 7 I do actively avoid boredom so I don't have any future regrets about not doing something, and to avoid stagnancy and empty yucky feelings. There's also some things I don't enjoy talking about because I don't like being reminded that they exist, and until I can become accustomed to the fact they exist I avoid it like the plague. I have such a mixed relationship with dark humor cause of that-I have a lot of trouble laughing along with dark humor these days because it's a reminder of things existing but then the 4 fix in me just drops some dark humor out of nowhere so I can get people to react to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fatgurl View Post
    Loool I've been eating the same exact thing for lunch at school for over four years...
    B-but why? Something sensory going on? Is it something you don't really think about experimenting with? What is it that you eat at school?

    I suppose you could call my behavior weird too though:

    Me: Wow this is one of the best things I've eaten in my life

    Also me: No thank you, I've never going to eat that again, nope

    @Lady_X yesssss, give me the whole smorgasbord. Makes me want continental breakfast.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Saturnal Snowqueen View Post
    B-but why? Something sensory going on? Is it something you don't really think about experimenting with? What is it that you eat at school?

    I suppose you could call my behavior weird too though:

    Me: Wow this is one of the best things I've eaten in my life

    Also me: No thank you, I've never going to eat that again, nope
    They're called cheese patties. I just know that I'll like it and I'll eat food I like so much till I get sick of it. I'm pretty open-minded when it comes to trying new foods but I won't really do it when I'm eating alone, if I end up not liking it I'll be pretty upset. If I'm with someone and they're trying it then I will. Since it's a new experience with that person.
    Chronic "grass is always greener" syndrome
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    So is not just group dynamics. Hudson says it's the "human capacity to connect with other human beings, to be focused on others, to even be aware of others." It's focusing on the other, while sx is focusing on whether there's energy. It's about reading others, attuning/adapting ourselves to them, caring about them, connecting, communicating, play, reciprocity, participating, contributing, belonging. The key here is that it can be with just ONE other. It can be with the person you have sex with. It can be with your kid. Or friend. Or the grocery store clerk. Or your dog. It doesn't have to be a group of more than two for social to apply.
    Be e..x..c..e..l..l..e..n..t to each other.

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