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View Poll Results: Who did you find on dating sites ?

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  • I don't use dating sites, no way !

    2 50.00%
  • Multiple adventures

    0 0%
  • Sex friend(s) and that's it !

    0 0%
  • Mates/friends

    0 0%
  • Boyfriend/girlfriend

    1 25.00%
  • Husband/wife

    0 0%
  • Other (pen friend/correspondance)

    1 25.00%

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    Senior Member RedAmazoneFriendZone's Avatar
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    Default How each type uses dating sites and to what extend ?

    There is probably a post about this subject but I couldn't find it in the forum.


    Did you already suscribe to a dating site, why : was there a special event in your life that led you to that decision ?

    If yes, at this time were you just curious, did you feel alone or other motivations (sex, drug and rock'n roll) ?


    I would love to discover which kind of personality is more prone to "virtual love".



    Multiple adventures ? correspondance ? Sex friends you kept contact with or not ?

    Mates ? Boyfriend or girlfriend ? Or even husband or wife ...


    Did you discuss for long with your mate before meeting him/her ?

    Do you feel free when meeting someone in the virtual world or on the contrary do you have a tendency to feel limited ?

    Who tried first to meet" in reality", you or your partner ?



    Are you honest towards the person you seduce online or is it just a game ?

    Do you feel you can trust the "virtual partner" or you don't give any trust before meeting him/her ?


    Please help me understanding the many motivations behind those mysterious screens.





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    I have found online relationships after moreless knowing someone a long term online, but I do not willingly put myself on a dating website looking for a partner. I feel it sort of defeats the purpose of what love should be. Like this wonderful random event you didn't see coming. Unexpected. Finding someone who brings out the best in you and you in them. I feel like dating sites come from a superficial idea that you can just pick and choose from a selection and that degrades love. Also much of the romance from dating sites can be superficial too - I know way too many people who use tinder for finding a quick fuck. Not my idea of love.

    Now in my relationships I have found online, to be honest thus far I never met one of them offline. It was always discussed. I have trouble "exiting" the place I am because I'm not exactly rich and I know my family would about 500x over not help me maybe even throw me out. XD For the most part I find it nice because you can like someone for who they are rather than appearance or less important factors. So that's just my 2 cents.
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