I find most ENFJ descriptions off-putting bc they seem to focus solely on 2s, 3s, and even 8s. Idgaf about ‘helping people’ - I like to help ppl, but it’s nowhere near my motivation in life or my energy level. Most descriptions have us marching around dryly correcting ppl and acting like school guidance counselors. I know several like that and they’re 3w2s.

As a 4w3, I have found this description to be a great deal more apt:


The Introvert ENFJ - Personality Growth

Thoughts welcome.