How do you react when someone close to you has passed away
well, the first time it happened (my first gf), i was pretty much destroyed. my primary coping mechanism was withdrawal, since no one around me really had any idea what to do. my mom tried to talk to me about it all the time, but it just made it worse because i hated her anyway. anyhow, i luckily had 1 friend who understood what was up (she's my best friend now, an ENFP), and i hung out with her just to know i was understood even if i didn't say anything. yeah. it was like a 2 year healing process, if it's even done.
the second time, a really really good friend died of a heroin overdose, but i had built up my coping mechanisms so strongly from the first death i'd been through that my feelings were buried right away. i forced them out over time, but i don't know if i ever dealt with it fully. he was an amazing poet/musician/lyricist. just fucking genius (INFP 4w5 duh).
a few other people i've been less close to have died, and most of the feelings i have are directed at people that were closer to the death. like, i cried at my friend's brother's funeral because i was thinking about what his parents were going through.
sorry for the long-winded answer.
moved far from you (phsycally/mentally)
physically: shrug it off. i'll see em when i see em.
mentally: wonder why, talk it out with them, eventually get over it or change it.
decided to end the relationship
the end of my last relationship sucked for me (although i broke up with her). i still can't get past the idea that we'll end up married once she works on herself for a while. i had to break up with her because she couldn't provide what i needed (and she still definitely can't). but it's really hard for me to get over it when i truly believe we'll end up together again...even if it's 7 years down the line.
hasnt forgiven you or is dissapointed in you?
when people are disappointed in me, i make sure they understand i take responsibility. then i just try to be the best friend i can be. they'll get over it over time. i haven't done anything terrible enough for friendships to end.
well...i take that back. i fucked up one friendship badly. the dude is really nice, so he's still "cool" with me on the surface. but i don't think he'll ever forgive me. (i hooked up with his GF...yeah, i'm terrible)