First let me say that I take no offense. Although I identify much more with Protestantism than Catholicism, just because that's how I was raised, I don't think Protestants have it all right, nor Catholics all wrong. As for the contrarian nature of Protestant thought, I can certainly see how historically this was the case, but I don't think today's Protestants choose their specific beliefs just to be contrary. It's just a different set of beliefs, and frankly, I think both Protestants and Catholics believe some silly things.But also many good things.
I was mainly referring to the differences in philosophy between Catholicism and Protestantism - for instance, the idea of a personal relationship with God rather than needing the intermediary of a priest. I was raised Protestant, and while I have no problem with Catholicism (well.... at least no problems that I don't ALSO have with Protestantism!), I never understood the point of confessing to a priest. Does he have the power to absolve you? No, certainly not. I get that the idea of telling your misdeeds to a living, breathing person may be a better deterrent than confessing them only to a God you can't see, but I don't really like the idea of guilt and shame being used in this way. Of course, Protestants use guilt and shame too, just in different ways. But I still think a personal relationship with God is more meaningful. I also was always a bit offended when I went to church with my BFF (who was raised Catholic) and since I myself was not a Catholic, I was not allowed to take communion, even though I took communion at my own church. If my Catholic friend had come to church with me, she'd have been allowed to take communion with us.
I hope I haven't offended you, either. It is certainly not my intention.
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08-18-2010, 01:24 PM #741Masquerading as a normal person day after day is exhausting.
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08-18-2010, 01:37 PM #742SnifflesGuest
Aquarelle99, forgive me but I'll have to address your arguments a bit later. Im a little preoccupied with other issues atm.
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08-18-2010, 01:38 PM #743Masquerading as a normal person day after day is exhausting.
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08-18-2010, 02:06 PM #744
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I actually understand and support the restrictions of communion to professing, practicing RCs, although I dont support the views of some traditionalists which suggest that it should be restricted further to penitant RCs a set number of days from their confession and who have fasted for half the day before receiving it. Its not meant to be a rejection or reinforce outsider status of non-RC christians or anything.
The thing about confession, I know this is a big deal for a lot of non-RCs, its a big deal for some RCs too. The best reasons I can think of are well portrayed in Gran Torino with Clint Eastwood's character dissing the naive, young priest.
However, there's a lot of different sorts of confession, the congregational confession in which people think rather than speak their sins, aswell as the one to one confession. Do I believe that religious have the power to absolve sins? Yes, I do. Do I think God will not forgive what is not shared a confession, not necessarily.
However I think that institution historically served a different function, which worked, especially for extraverts, much better than prayer or private acts of contrition. Really good priests can provide, through confession, the service which a good psycho-analyst would, in fact Freud drew a lot of parallels himself. More modern psychological theorists would draw parallels with other-directed or peer-directed co-regulation or co-reflection in internal conflict resolution/management or affect/emotional regulation. Particularly those associated with guilt, shame, terror, aversion and dread.
I wont pretend it was abused or still is, its not the intelligence gathering set up some opponents of the church believe it is though. There's no wire to the vatican running from those confessional booths.
There is a version of the personal relationship with God within RC beliefs, definitely in Erasmus and Moore, definitely in the mystics, its the complete corner stone of the Jesuit, Franciscan and other religious orders. Sacramentalism, again open to abuse, it is an imperfect world, is not supposed to be a barrier or intermediary but it is one of the attempts to bridge the personal experiences of believers with the need for a means of transmitting knowledge between generations so that they may have opportunities at least for similar experiences.
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08-18-2010, 04:00 PM #745
Yes.
I like the analogy, mentioned by others, of many paths to the same mountaintop. I definitely agree that there is one "God", or to be more generic, "divine entity", whom we call by many names, and see in many different ways. One human can be many things to many people: child, sibling, parent, friend, neighbor, mentor, etc. The infinite divine can even moreso relate to each of us in different ways, depending upon our individual makeup and our situation in life. This is part of what I mean by personal fit. I am not so much making God in my image, but viewing God with my own eyes rather than trying to do so through someone else's. God made me the way I am, and I should be able to worship, commune, reflect, study in a way that is consistent with this rather than at odds with it. Much of this relates more to religion as a communal expression of faith, though, than to my own personal beliefs.
As for morality, I do not come up with my own personal morality a priori, but rather look for those common threads found in most/all the great religious traditions.
On the subject of faith being public, I do not understand this. To me, faith is personal, if not private. Each of us believes what we believe. We can go through the motions of something else, but that is not sincere belief. Religion, on the other hand, is almost by definition public since it implies some commonality of belief, practice, or both. I can participate in a religion even if I do not share these common beliefs (much like Victor's atheists attending church for social reasons); or I can act upon my personal beliefs in an individual way, separate from any religion or faith group.
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08-18-2010, 04:03 PM #746SnifflesGuest
As Chesterton once noted, the two great commandents are love God and love thy neighbor -and the two can't be seperated since your neighbor is made in the image of God as much as you. So how can one love God and yet neglect that which is made in his own image?
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08-18-2010, 04:15 PM #747
Perhaps I am drawing a different dividing line between public and personal/private. To me, public is what is outwardly visible. My actual beliefs, including however much love I can muster for God or my neighbor, are internal to myself and thus private. They cross the line into public territory only when I act upon them. It is thus the action, not the faith itself, that becomes public. Others may see my actions, but cannot know with certainty whether they were motivated by an article of faith, altruistic instincts, social conditioning, or even something more selfish like manipulation or brownnosing. All of this presumes that one's faith includes these two great commandments.
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08-20-2010, 10:05 AM #749Masquerading as a normal person day after day is exhausting.
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08-20-2010, 10:21 AM #750
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I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness and left at a young age. I can remember the discussions I had with the congregation's elders as they were trying to 'heal me'. They pointed at scripture after scripture, and I told them that I wasn't sure that I believed in the Bible. They shook their heads, packed up, and left.
I don't have one, but religion has always been an important part of my life. It's easy to be Methodist or Lutheran or Catholic if you're born one, but from an outsider's point of view the differences are minimal. There's really no compelling reason to become anything, except for the usual reasons people join religions, because of lonliness, loss of a loved one, or just conforming.
As far as God, I believe in goodness, which I think implies a God. If it's important for God to let me know of anyting else beyond that, 'he' will let me know. But, I have a feeling we all know already.