Your Top Three Types are 7, 9 and 3.
Type 7: The Enthusiast
Enthusiasts are energetic, lively, and optimistic. They want to contribute to the world.
How to Get Along with Me
Give me companionship, affection, and freedom.
Engage with me in stimulating conversation and laughter.
Appreciate my grand visions and listen to my stories.
Don't try to change my style. Accept me the way I am.
Be responsible for youself. I dislike clingy or needy people.
Don't tell me what to do.
What I Like About Being a Seven
Being optimistic and not letting life's troubles get me down.
Being spontaneous and free-spirited.
Being outspoken and outrageous. It's part of the fun.
Being generous and trying to make the world a better place.
Having the guts to take risks and to try exciting adventures.
Having such varied interests and abilities.
What's Hard About Being a Seven
Not having enough time to do all the things I want.
Not completing things I start.
Not being able to profit from the benefits that come from specializing; not making a commitment to a career.
Having a tendency to be ungrounded; getting lost in plans or fantasies.
Feeling confined when I'm in a one-to-one relationship.
Type 9: The Peacemaker
Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them.
How to Get Along with Me
If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure.
I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advatage of this.
Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.
Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally.
Ask me questions to help me get clear.
Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.
Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
Let me know you like what I've done or said.
Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.
What I Like About Being a Nine
Being nonjudgmental and accepting.
Caring for and being concerned about others.
Being able to relax and have a good time.
Knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around.
My ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator.
My heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now.
Being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe.
What's Hard About Being a Nine
Being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive.
Being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline.
Being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally.
Being confused about what I really want.
Caring too much about what others will think of me.
Not being listened to or taken seriously.
Type 3: The Achiever
Achievers are energetic, optimistic, self-assured, and goal oriented.
How to Get Along with Me
Leave me alone when I am doing my work.
Give me honest, but not unduly critical or judgmental, feedback.
Help me keep my environment harmonious and peaceful.
Don't burden me with negative emotions.
Tell me you like being around me.
Tell me when you're proud of me or my accomplishments.
What I Like About Being a Three
Being optimistic, friendly, and upbeat.
Providing well for my family.
Being able to recover quickly from setbacks and to charge ahead to the next challenge.
Staying informed, knowing what's going on.
Being competent and able to get things to work efficiently.
Being able to motivate people.
What's Hard About Being a Three
Having to put up with inefficiency and incompetence.
The fear on not being -- or of not being seen as -- successful.
Comparing myself to people who do things better.
Struggling to hang on to my success.
Putting on facades in order to impress people.
Always being "on." It's exhausting.
