Which of the 5 Love Languages are You?

[Magic Poriferan]

I feel like making my partner an artistic music is more of acts of affection and affirmation rather than real "gift giving" as it is not always something tangible that can be used in any fashion.

Yes, it could probably blur the line between affirmation, service, and quality time. All of those things. But it's not a gift. At least when someone write's me a song I don't have to figure out where to put it.

 

[Red Memories]

Yes, it could probably blur the line between affirmation, service, and quality time. All of those things. But it's not a gift. At least when someone write's me a song I don't have to figure out where to put it.

Oh my god I feel this XD

 

[Firebird 8118]

I think my primary love language has changed over time, is this normal? I used to appreciate affirmation and physical affection more... but now I see the most value in acts of service. I don’t know if it’s because of the wisdom I gained from past failures, or because I simply stopped expecting others to say a kind word or give a loving touch (even innocent ones like holding hands or a pat on the back).

Either way, gifts have always been the last thing I’d want from anyone. I feel awkward enough receiving gifts in general because I feel unworthy/undeserving of them (which is why it’s far easier for me to buy things for myself, at least I’ve “earned” them as a working woman!).