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How Many Kids Should You Have?

Norrsken

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Blogthings Version, since my other one was a bust. ;p
 

Hawthorne

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One kid again? Can someone read my answers and tell me what about them gives the impression that children are a good idea?

 

Yama

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You shouldn't have kids, but mostly because you don't want them!
You don't particularly like kids, and you certainly don't like them enough to have them around 24-7.

You are childfree by choice, and you doubt you'll change your mind. It annoys you when people say you will.
There's nothing wrong with not having kids. You just wish the rest of the world agreed.
 

Kanra Jest

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You shouldn't have kids, but mostly because you don't want them!
You don't particularly like kids, and you certainly don't like them enough to have them around 24-7.

You are childfree by choice, and you doubt you'll change your mind. It annoys you when people say you will.
There's nothing wrong with not having kids. You just wish the rest of the world agreed.

Oh hey no kids again.
 

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You Should Have One Kid

Having a child is something you'd like to experience, but you're not sure about a crew of kids.
While there are downsides to having an only child, you would be able to devote all your resources to him or her.

You want to be able to balance a family with your other goals, and that would be hard to do with a lot of kids.
One kid is totally manageable for you. It may be a bit stressful to have a child, but it would be totally worth it!​

Oh thank God that the internet validated this for me. This was my plan all along and I'd hate to have to reorient on account of this test
 

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over nine thousand
 

Luke O

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You should have one kid


Well that's handy to know, since I have one kid and I've also had The Snip
 

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You shouldn't have kids.
 

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Do you mind if your house is messy?

Do you mind if your house is loud?

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Cellmold

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You shouldn't have kids, but mostly because you don't want them!
You don't particularly like kids, and you certainly don't like them enough to have them around 24-7.

You are childfree by choice, and you doubt you'll change your mind. It annoys you when people say you will.
There's nothing wrong with not having kids. You just wish the rest of the world agreed.
 

DiscoBiscuit

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As many or few as you and your spouse can support and handle.

Get married first. Then have kids then stay married. Have solid jobs and support your family.

It's just that simple!

I would like to have two or three.
 

Morpeko

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You Should Have One Kid

Having a child is something you'd like to experience, but you're not sure about a crew of kids.
While there are downsides to having an only child, you would be able to devote all your resources to him or her.

You want to be able to balance a family with your other goals, and that would be hard to do with a lot of kids.
One kid is totally manageable for you. It may be a bit stressful to have a child, but it would be totally worth it!
 

Saturnal Snowqueen

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You Should Have Two Kids

You can definitely manage a small family, and having kids is one of your major goals.
That being said, having kids is not all you want to do. Two is a perfect number for you!

You want to make sure your children have the best upbringing possible, but you still want to live a balanced life.
Having two kids will leave you just enough time and money to do the things you want to do for yourself and your family
 

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If I were to have a kid, I'd likely only want one. This was decent. xD
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You Should Have One Kid

Having a child is something you'd like to experience, but you're not sure about a crew of kids.
While there are downsides to having an only child, you would be able to devote all your resources to him or her.

You want to be able to balance a family with your other goals, and that would be hard to do with a lot of kids.
One kid is totally manageable for you. It may be a bit stressful to have a child, but it would be totally worth it!
 
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