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Attachment Style Quiz

meme duchess

mein, memeself, and MeMe
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A survey to determine your attachment style - four different kinds, I believe:
Attachment Styles and Close Relationships

According to attachment theory and research, there are two fundamental ways in which people differ from one another in the way they think about relationships. First, some people are more anxious than others. People who are high in attachment-related anxiety tend to worry about whether their partners really love them and often fear rejection. People low on this dimension are much less worried about such matters. Second, some people are more avoidant than others. People who are high in attachment-related avoidance are less comfortable depending on others and opening up to others.

RESULTS:
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Hawthorne

corona
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I took the in depth one and will probably track it over time.

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Ene

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I scored as dismissive.
 

Yama

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wolfnara

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Combining your anxiety and avoidance scores, you fall into the preoccupied region of the space. Previous research on attachment styles indicates that preoccupied people tend to have highly conflictual relationships. Although they are comfortable expressing their emotions, preoccupied individuals often experience a lot of negative emotions, which can often interfere with their relationships.
 

Bush

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The light red area at the upper-right portion represents the fearful-avoidant region of the space. People who are fearfully avoidant in their relationships are uncomfortable depending on others and serving as an attachment figure. Moreover, they worry that others may not be there emotionally when they are most needed. [...]

According to your responses, your general attachment style is Fearful-avoidant.​

Uh oh.
 

Smilephantomhive

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Is this for romantic relationships or any relationships?
 

Yama

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Is this for romantic relationships or any relationships?

The description said "close relationships" but then most of the questions mentioned a romantic partner. I just pretended it was all "close relationships" without necessarily being romantic.
 

miss fortune

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so I'm smug, arrogant and dismissive... wow, I'm a total catch :(
 
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Relationship Domain Your Attachment Style
General Preoccupied
Mother Fearful-avoidant
Father Preoccupied
Romantic Preoccupied
Friend Secure

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elcie

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fearful
4.11 anxiety
5.00 avoidance
 

NAPSTABLOOK22

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This quiz is kind of confusing when you've never been in a romantic relationship. Anyways...

According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 2.94, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 5.83, on a scale ranging from 1 (low avoidance) to 7 (high avoidance).

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julesiscools

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Combining your anxiety and avoidance scores, you fall into the preoccupied region of the space. Previous research on attachment styles indicates that preoccupied people tend to have highly conflictual relationships. Although they are comfortable expressing their emotions, preoccupied individuals often experience a lot of negative emotions, which can often interfere with their relationships.
 
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Survey Option A: According to your responses, your general attachment style is Fearful-avoidant. People who are fearfully avoidant in their relationships are uncomfortable depending on others and serving as an attachment figure. Moreover, they worry that others may not be there emotionally when they are most needed.

General: Fearful-avoidant
Mother: Dismissing-avoidant
Father: Dismissing-avoidant
Romantic: Secure
Friend: Preoccupied


Survey Option B: According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 3.28, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 2.67, on a scale ranging from 1 (low avoidance) to 7 (high avoidance).
 

Luminous

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According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 5.33, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 1.33, on a scale ranging from 1 (low avoidance) to 7 (high avoidance).



According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 5.22, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 1.89, on a scale ranging from 1 (low avoidance) to 7 (high avoidance).
 
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