The Social Orientation Inventory

[Thalassa]

I thought this was hilarious yet accurate.

The Casanova

+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure

You scored 57% Attention-desiring, 60% Other-directedness, 78% Attachment-desiring, 84% Emotionality, 97% Romance-seeking, 58% Range, and 56% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging

Summary: Everyone within a five-mile radius knows who you are. Your high self-confidence and pushiness might scare some people away, but overall you have no problem making and keeping relationships. You're probably loud in bed.


TAKE THE TEST

 

[ReflecTcelfeR]

The Co-Dependent... Hahaha...

 

[Thalassa]

No interesting details, sir?

 

[ReflecTcelfeR]

I'll retake the test... I am ashamed at the result. I'm not going to alter it, but I'll post them unless someone else gets the same score and shows the description.

 

[Speed Gavroche]

The Ringing Phone

+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Broad/Insecure


You scored 69% Attention-desiring, 58% Other-directedness, 69% Attachment-desiring, 52% Emotionality, 92% Romance-seeking, 60% Range, and 48% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging

Summary: Your identity comes from other people, i.e., you latch onto them in order to escape the lameness and/or existential hell of being you. You are likely to seek out many romantic/sexual partners, possibly at the same time or one right after another. The possibility of abandonment worries you.

 

[Silveresque]

The Borderline Personality

+Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 56% Attention-desiring, 53% Other-directedness, 51% Attachment-desiring, 50% Emotionality, 69% Romance-seeking, 30% Range, and 40% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You crave regular acknowledgment and recognition from others. You make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. Your high expectations for closeness and intensity may lead to feelings of rejection.

 

[Stigmata]

The Complainer
-Attent/Self/+Attach/-Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 37% Attention-desiring, 35% Other-directedness, 54% Attachment-desiring, 40% Emotionality, 64% Romance-seeking, 23% Range, and 24% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate

Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially romantic partners. Your relationships are somewhat impersonal and center more on shared interests and/or lust than shared emotions. You are likely to be shy.

 

[chickpea]

i'm the beet
i'm on my phone so i can't copypasta


hahaaa it told me to consider sexual masochism as a hobby.

 

[JocktheMotie]

Ha!

nobody. though he sometimes reminds me of my older brother.
so we've totally added step sibling quasi incest to the roleplay rolodex.

Wonderful. Entanglement.

 

[Not_Me]

The Violet

-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/-<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 35% Attention-desiring, 59% Other-directedness, 74% Attachment-desiring, 60% Emotionality, 28% Romance-seeking, 45% Range, and 46% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto your few friendships. Your shyness and behavioral inhibition might bely an underlying desire for greater closeness.

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The Violet? That sounds feminine.

 

[Atomic Fiend]

The Screenwriter

-Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure

You scored 46% Attention-desiring, 46% Other-directedness, 65% Attachment-desiring, 62% Emotionality, 75% Romance-seeking, 43% Range, and 53% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto important relationships, especially sexual/romantic ones. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while not robbing you of your autonomy.

 

[Oaky]

Beautiful.

The Chess Club Treasurer
-Attent/Self/+Attach/-Emo/-<3/Narrow/Secure

You scored 31% Attention-desiring, 31% Other-directedness, 54% Attachment-desiring, 49% Emotionality, 33% Romance-seeking, 44% Range, and 63% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate

Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto friends when you have them. Your relationships are somewhat impersonal and center more on shared interests than shared emotions.

 

[Southern Kross]

The Beet
-Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 30% Attention-desiring, 41% Other-directedness, 63% Attachment-desiring, 50% Emotionality, 64% Romance-seeking, 22% Range, and 25% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging

Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto important relationships, especially sexual/romantic ones. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while not robbing you of your autonomy. You are likely to be shy and to expend much of your mental energy towards self-doubt, shame, embarrassment, etc. If you haven't done so already, consider sexual masochism as a hobby.



except for the masochism bit

 

[onemoretime]

The Deep Conversationalist

+Attent/Self/-Attach/+Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure

You scored 70% Attention-desiring, 46% Other-directedness, 42% Attachment-desiring, 60% Emotionality, 28% Romance-seeking, 65% Range, and 75% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Acute
Summary: You crave regular acknowledgment and recognition from others. You enjoy high-intensity, short-term interactions with many different people, but you don't put much effort into keeping those people in your life. Novelty thrills you.

*****

Yup, sounds about right.

 

[The Outsider]

The Misanthrope
-Attent/Self/-Attach/-Emo/-<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 13% Attention-desiring, 28% Other-directedness, 48% Attachment-desiring, 36% Emotionality, 43% Romance-seeking, 22% Range, and 35% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Distant
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and not empathize much with others. You don't get too close, nor do you put much effort (if any) into keeping particular people in your life. You often feel rejected.

 

[Nicodemus]

The Chiller
-Attent/Self/+Attach/-Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure

You scored 49% Attention-desiring, 51% Other-directedness, 58% Attachment-desiring, 48% Emotionality, 51% Romance-seeking, 51% Range, and 56% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate

By not answering a single question.

 

[Oaky]

Too chill to care about answering anything eh? Works well.

 

[Thalassa]

By not answering a single question.

And yet it seems like an entirely appropriate title for you, eh?

They were prepared for INTJs like you.

 

[011235813]

Yeah, Nico owned that quiz.

Here's mine:

The Injured Kitten
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 39% Attention-desiring, 59% Other-directedness, 70% Attachment-desiring, 60% Emotionality, 80% Romance-seeking, 39% Range, and 34% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging

Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while allowing you enough space. You are likely to be shy.

Works well with my current avatar and that ghastly video Oaky made featuring it.

 

[Sniffles]

The Violet
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/-<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 46% Attention-desiring, 70% Other-directedness, 53% Attachment-desiring, 57% Emotionality, 45% Romance-seeking, 35% Range, and 30% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging

Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto your few friendships. Your shyness and behavioral inhibition might bely an underlying desire for greater closeness.