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Love Languages Test

kelric

Feline Member
Joined
Sep 8, 2007
Messages
2,169
MBTI Type
INtP
5 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
0 Receiving Gifts
4 Acts of Service (should also be zero)
11 Physical Touch

Pretty accurate, except that I don't like acts of service at all. It's just that several questions were to pick an act of service or a gift, and I strongly, strongly dislike gifts. Like, I get a feeling of dread whenever I receive one, or am expected to give one (that it won't be liked). I don't mind doings things for people (as long as it's not a case of guilt being used to convince me to do it), but don't like it when people do things for me. Frankly, I'd be happier if nobody ever wanted to help me do something or give me anything. Except a hug. Hugs rock. Let's go do something fun together, or have a good long conversation.
 

Freesia

cool cat
Joined
Dec 4, 2013
Messages
225
MBTI Type
Meow
Enneagram
:0)
Instinctual Variant
so/sp
6 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
3 Receiving Gifts
6 Acts of Service
5 Physical Touch
 

Freesia

cool cat
Joined
Dec 4, 2013
Messages
225
MBTI Type
Meow
Enneagram
:0)
Instinctual Variant
so/sp
6 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
3 Receiving Gifts
6 Acts of Service
5 Physical Touch

Oops, double post...
 

Galena

Silver and Lead
Joined
Mar 12, 2013
Messages
3,786
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
5 Words of Affirmation
11 Quality Time
8 Receiving Gifts
2 Acts of Service
4 Physical Touch

Apparently I am the only one so far that likes giving/receiving gifts.
Exchanging gifts is in my top two, very close to quality time. :) It's accurate.
 

á´…eparted

passages
Joined
Jan 25, 2014
Messages
8,265
Apparently I am the only one so far that likes giving/receiving gifts.

By and large, I hate receiving gifts. I quite dislike christmas because of this. When I was home for the holidays this year I was stomping around my moms apartment all pissed off about the whole ordeal again, proclaiming that I am not participating in the holiday next year, and will be staying in Oregon by myself instead. Receiving gifts, while nice, usually just makes me uncomfortable. If it's unexpected I am usually really really discomforted by it. I sent an angry email to my mother complaining that my grandmother kept doing it and I just wanted her to stop. It makes me feel this unbearable feeling of unspoken obligation to reciprocate the action, and I can never figure out what is adequet and I can't match it right. It also forces me to have to deal with it then, I can't do it on my own terms when it feels right. Further, if the gift isn't something I actually asked for or wanted, 75% of the time it doesn't effect me. I'm just like "oh, it's a thing. cool?". The thing is though, I know this is rude and I never utter a word about it unless I am in a bad mindset (I was when I sent the email, that luckily more or less went over well). Even with people I am close with I don't like it.

So yeah I kinda hate christmas. Sorry for the minor derailment :whistling:.
 

Halla74

Artisan Conquerer
Joined
Jan 20, 2009
Messages
6,898
MBTI Type
ESTP
Enneagram
7w8
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
Halla74's Love Language Scores

10 = Physical Touch
7 = Words of Affirmation
8 = Quality Time
1 = Receiving Gifts
4 = Acts of Service

Physical Touch

This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face – they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Physical touch fosters a sense of security and belonging in any relationship.

No surprises for me here; a neat test.

:solidarity:

-Halla74
 

EJCC

The Devil of TypoC
Joined
Aug 29, 2008
Messages
19,129
MBTI Type
ESTJ
Enneagram
1w9
Instinctual Variant
sp/so
Your Scores
3 Words of Affirmation
9 Quality Time
2 Receiving Gifts
7 Acts of Service
9 Physical Touch


So, essentially a three-way tie between physical touch, acts of service, and quality time.

This is why I have a hard time with this system. :doh:
 

Lightyear

New member
Joined
Jul 3, 2008
Messages
899
4 Words of Affirmation
12 Quality Time
4 Receiving Gifts
6 Acts of Service
4 Physical Touch

No surprise here.
 

Amargith

Hotel California
Joined
Nov 5, 2008
Messages
14,717
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
4dw
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
Your Scores

7Words of Affirmation
8Quality Time
2Receiving Gifts
2Acts of Service
11Physical Touch


:thinking: Interesting....I used to be a lot higher on words of affirmation. Guess I'm adjusting to my So's preferences of showing affection, as well as the fact that we actually can spend more time together now. I also am less insecure than I used to be so words of affirmation are less of a need and more of a nice bonus, maybe..
 

chubber

failed poetry slam career
Joined
Oct 18, 2013
Messages
4,413
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
  • 7 Words of Affirmation
  • 7 Quality Time
  • 2 Receiving Gifts
  • 5 Acts of Service
  • 9 Physical Touch
 

Evo

Unapologetic being
Joined
Jul 1, 2011
Messages
3,160
MBTI Type
XNTJ
Enneagram
1w9
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
Quality Time: 11
Acts of Service: 8
Physical Touch: 7
Receiving Gifts: 3
Words of Affirmation: 1

This is me to a T
 

chubber

failed poetry slam career
Joined
Oct 18, 2013
Messages
4,413
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
I have to wonder, if this is a test to see how you would like to be loved, is there perhaps another test that would reveal the type of love you would give? I'm not sure if it is the same as what I would want to receive.
 

EJCC

The Devil of TypoC
Joined
Aug 29, 2008
Messages
19,129
MBTI Type
ESTJ
Enneagram
1w9
Instinctual Variant
sp/so
I have to wonder, if this is a test to see how you would like to be loved, is there perhaps another test that would reveal the type of love you would give? I'm not sure if it is the same as what I would want to receive.
Well the idea is that if/when you and a potential partner take this, you can adapt the type of love you give to suit each other's needs.
 

Chad of the OttomanEmpire

Give me a fourth dot.
Joined
Jun 9, 2013
Messages
1,053
MBTI Type
NeTi
Enneagram
478
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
6 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
6 Receiving Gifts
4 Acts of Service
4 Physical Touch

Yep.
 

chubber

failed poetry slam career
Joined
Oct 18, 2013
Messages
4,413
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
Well the idea is that if/when you and a potential partner take this, you can adapt the type of love you give to suit each other's needs.

But what if I can only give a certain type?
 

Odi et Amo

To here knows when...
Joined
Dec 18, 2013
Messages
143
MBTI Type
INFJ
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
5 - Words of Affirmation
12 - Quality Time
0 - Receiving Gifts
5 - Acts of Service
8 - Physical Touch
 
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LadyLazarus

Guest
12-Quality Time
7-Words of Affirmation
5-Physical Touch
5-Acts of Service
1-Receiving Gifts
 

EricF

New member
Joined
Feb 5, 2014
Messages
9
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
5W6
9 - Quality Time
7 - Acts of Service
7 - Physical Touch
4 - Receiving Gifts
3 - Words of Affirmation
 

chubber

failed poetry slam career
Joined
Oct 18, 2013
Messages
4,413
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
Nothing of surprise to me. Though I am weird with physical contact. I both love it (need it) and hate it at the same time. If someone does it to me and I am not expecting it I completely freeze.

Same here.
 
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