Love Languages Test

[Lethe]

[The highest possible score for any one love language is 12.]

A. (40%) Quality Time - 12
B. (23%) Words of Affirmation - 7
C. (13%) Acts of Service - 4
D. (13%) Physical Touch - 4
E. (10%) Receiving Gifts - 3

Quality Time is a significant 'love' language for me and that's why I attempt to seek out one-on-one conversations. If someone provides me their divided attention,... well, it feels slightly offensive.

 

[poppy]

Physical Touch-11
Quality Time- 7
Acts of Service-6
Words of Affirmation- 3
Receiving Gifts- 3

At first I was surprised to see physical touch listed as my top love language as I am rarely a physically demonstrative person. It makes sense though, because I allow very few people to touch me, but I want to always be touching those few people. And when there is nobody like that in my life, I go for very long stretches without any kind of physical contact (I guess because I don't give it out to just anyone).

 

[phthalocyanine]

quality time
physical touch
acts of service & words of affirmation
receiving gifts

i'm a sap

 

[highlander]

This was interesting.

Love Languages Test

My results

33% Words of Affirmation
27% Quality Time
27% Physical Touch
7% Receiving Gifts
7% Acts of Service

 

[Little Linguist]

It was interesting. It would also be interesting to analyze this tests and see which types prefer which kinds of love more, I'd say.

Here are my results:

37% quality time (11)
27% words of affirmation (8)
20% acts of service (6)
13% physical touch (4)
3% receiving gifts (1)

Highest possible score for a love language is 12.

So I'm obviously a quality time gal!

 

[highlander]

It was interesting. It would also be interesting to analyze this tests and see which types prefer which kinds of love more, I'd say.

Here are my results:

37% quality time (11)
27% words of affirmation (8)
20% acts of service (6)
13% physical touch (4)
3% receiving gifts (1)

Highest possible score for a love language is 12.

So I'm obviously a quality time gal!

Agree. What is your type then?

 

[Snuggletron]

so repetitive..

17% Words of Affirmation
27% Quality Time
0% Receiving Gifts
30% Acts of Service
27% Physical Touch

words of affirmation should probably be a bit higher. I'm not very touchy-feely actually.

 

[ubiquitous1]

33% Quality Time
23% Acts of Service
20% Words of Affirmation
13% Receiving Gifts
10% Physical Touch

 

[BlackCat]

30% Words of Affirmation
30% Quality Time
3% Receiving Gifts
7% Acts of Service
30% Physical Touch

Seems about right. I always related to Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and Physical Touch equally with what I need. To a lesser extent quality time though. While the other two just seem totally pointless (to me).

 

[The Outsider]

40% Physical Touch (12)
30% Quality Time (9)
20% Words of Affirmation (6)
7% Receiving Gifts (2)
3% Acts of Service (1)

 

[Phantonym]

33% Quality Time
30% Acts of Service
20% Physical Touch
17% Words of Affirmation
0% Receiving Gifts

Haha. I guess I'm really against receiving gifts.

 

[BlackCat]

Haha. I guess I'm really against receiving gifts.

Yeah, it just seems like such a superficial way of showing your love to me. Like, anything else would be better. I would hate to know that someone expected me to waste money on them, or that they wasted money on me, to show love.

 

[Parrish]

27% quality time
27% physical touch
20% acts of service
20% words of affirmation
7% receiving gifts

(which makes it a total of 101%)

Words of affirmation should probably be a bit higher. It`s kinda weird because I`m actually not that touchy-feely. I guess with the right person I would be.

 

[Phantonym]

Yeah, it just seems like such a superficial way of showing your love to me. Like, anything else would be better. I would hate to know that someone expected me to waste money on them, or that they wasted money on me, to show love.

I guess it also depends on the intention giving the gift has. If it's really something from the heart and with the best intentions in mind, the person giving it has given it a serious thought and for them it represents everything the other "languages" mentioned here don't even come close to conveying, then giving occasional gifts is just a lovely way of showing love and appreciation.

But if it indeed is something insignificant, like a learned obligation because the person is incapable of expressing their feelings any other way and they're not bothering to work on it, then it is just taking the easy way out and it sort of lessens the meaning.

 

[Snuggletron]

I`m actually not that touchy-feely. I guess with the right person I would be.

same

 

[JocktheMotie]

Comeoncomeoncomeoncomeon now touchhhhh me bayyyybeh

 

[BlueFlame]

Test Results:

Percent Language Score
23%
Words of Affirmation 7
27%
Quality Time 8
13%
Receiving Gifts 4
27%
Acts of Service 8
10%
Physical Touch 3

No wonder those handle squeexy machines in truck stops always say I'm a *cold fish...*

 

[ceecee]

30% Physical Touch
27% Quality Time
20% Words of Affirmation
20% Acts of Service
3% Receiving Gifts

 

[sculpting]

13% Words of Affirmation
30% Quality Time
0% Receiving Gifts
20% Acts of Service
37% Physical Touch

 

[Little Linguist]

Agree. What is your type then?

Most likely ENFJ. Possibly ENFP, but unlikely. I do not know for sure.

Seems interesting to notice the different types and how they respond differently to different love languages.

I agree with the comment made that gifts are a superficial way of showing love, unless of course it is spontaneous and a little something that has some kind of symbolic meaning.

Otherwise, nah.