Love Languages Test

[Kasper]

Moved from relationships.

 

[The Outsider]

Physical Touch 11
Quality Time 10
Words of Affirmation 6
Receiving Gifts 2
Acts of Service 1

I agree with it. Acts of service and receiving gifts questions really went against me, as did a good deal of words of affirmation.

 

[Queen Kat]

20% Words of Affirmation
30% Quality Time
13% Receiving Gifts
3% Acts of Service
33% Physical Touch

 

[Saslou]

Words of Affirmation 5
Quality Time 11
Receiving Gifts 0
Acts of Service 4
Physical Touch 10

 

[Kasper]

Physical Touch - 10
Quality Time - 8
Words of Affirmation - 7
Receiving Gifts - 3
Acts of Service - 2

Hugz is good

 

[Moiety]

20% Words of Affirmation 6
37% Quality Time 11
0% Receiving Gifts 0
13% Acts of Service 4
30% Physical Touch 9

 

[Totenkindly]

I never felt like I meshed with this test, nothing really feels great to me or sticks out.

It all seems very Sensor-ish too, everything is very quantifiable -- tangible expression. That makes sense, though, considering the aim of the test is for couples to give each other tangible quantifiable signs of love in order to improve their relationship.

You know what makes me feel loved?
- Being listened to
- Given autonomy rather than being made to feel/think how the other person feels/thinks
- Talking honestly and deeply / intimately, so I sense I know the other person and they know me.
- Knowing I can be myself -- even if that means sometimes showing my "ugly" side -- and that the other person still delights in me.

Mostly all "process" things -- HOW do we relate -- rather than through WHAT do we relate. Again, Sensor-ish for the latter.

 

[Moiety]

I never felt like I meshed with this test, nothing really feels great to me or sticks out.

It all seems very Sensor-ish too, everything is very quantifiable -- tangible expression. That makes sense, though, considering the aim of the test is for couples to give each other tangible quantifiable signs of love in order to improve their relationship.

You know what makes me feel loved?
- Being listened to
- Given autonomy rather than being made to feel/think how the other person feels/thinks
- Talking honestly and deeply / intimately, so I sense I know the other person and they know me.
- Knowing I can be myself -- even if that means sometimes showing my "ugly" side -- and that the other person still delights in me.

Mostly all "process" things -- HOW do we relate -- rather than through WHAT do we relate. Again, Sensor-ish for the latter.

Yeah I very much agree.

 

[Halla74]

Percent  Language               Score  
-------  -------------          ------
33%      Physical Touch          10    
27%      Words of Affirmation     8    
20%      Quality Time             6    
17%      Acts of Service          5    
3%       Receiving Gifts          1

If I love you, I want you to be near to me, I want to hear your voice (not just words of affirmation) as it is music to my ears.

I am actually a little surprised that "Quality Time" ranked third for me, as "Words of Affirmation" didn't even register as a possibility when I glanced over this.

I actually don't need praise, but I think there is a good chance that I am pretty sensitive to criticism from someone I love. Anybody else's criticism just rolls right off my back; I care not about it.

Gifts? Whatever. My tastes are so eccentric and obscure...and not to mention expensive...and I am pretty damn picky...I really don't like receiving gifts at all. But CA$H is a different story!

 

[garbage]

Words of Affirmation 7 23%
Quality Time 11 37%
Receiving Gifts 1 3%
Acts of Service 2 7%
Physical Touch 9 30%

Yup

 

[Nonsensical]

I don't know...I just feel like someone who doesn't really love you can use words of affirmation and physical touch to create the illusion they love you, but if they really love you, it comes in more through service and quality time. Love is action. Does anybody understand this?

 

[garbage]

I don't know...I just feel like someone who doesn't really love you can use words of affirmation and physical touch to create the illusion they love you, but if they really love you, it comes in more through service and quality time. Love is action. Does anybody understand this?

It's hard to fake sincerity in true words of affirmation, though, since it takes knowing how to communicate to your partner.

People who don't love you can also fake service and quality time.

 

[Nonsensical]

It's hard to fake sincerity in true words of affirmation, though, since it takes knowing how to communicate to your partner.

People who don't love you can also fake service and quality time.

I know.

It's just hard when you've been around it and know that when someone tells you they love you and all and then leaves you and I'm not talking about a relationship- it happened in my family..so I don't think I see eye to eye on this one with you.

 

[MonkeyGrass]

Words of Affirmation 7
Quality Time 9
Receiving Gifts 4
Acts of Service 7
Physical Touch 3

I think my Acts of Service and Physical Touch are skewed by my being a mother of three little people. Normally, I love Physical Touch (unselfish Physical touch...and I can *tell*) and before being a parent couldn't give a rat's patooty about Acts of Service. But since it's hard to get a hand free when you're a parent, Acts become really important for a season.

I think the answers can be skewed by life situation.

 

[Udog]

Quality Time            12  
Physical Touch          9 
Acts of Service         4  
Words of Affirmation    4  
Receiving Gifts         1

Quality of time does not = quantity of time. The time apart should enhance the time together. Also, I struggle with those that have receiving gifts as a primary language of love. I'm just not geared to think that way all the time.

 

[BerberElla]

Also, I struggle with those that have receiving gifts as a primary language of love. I'm just not geared to think that way all the time.

Me too, infact you'll be lucky if I remember your birthday in time to get you a gift, have to come down off the clouds for that you know.

 

[ceecee]

27% Words of Affirmation 8
30% Quality Time 9
0% Receiving Gifts 0
27% Acts of Service 8
17% Physical Touch 5

 

[Falcarius]

30% Quality Time
23% Physical Touch
20% Acts of Service
17% Words of Affirmation
10% Receiving Gifts

 

[RenaiReborn]

Words of Affirmation - 20%
Quality Time - 37%
Receiving Gifts - 0%
Acts of Service - 30%
Physical Touch - 13%

 

[Thalassa]

This test is okay, but I don't know about it, honestly. I went by what worked best in my longest, most serious relationship. If I were to go by these results, I'd call myself an S, not an N, and that isn't the case at all.

10% Words of Affirmation 3
17% Quality Time 5
13% Receiving Gifts 4
20% Acts of Service 6
40% Physical Touch 12