Johari/Nohari [ -> Harikari? ] Charts

[Virtual ghost]

I have one question.

I am watching what is going one here and I have one observation.

We have two categories one good one bad.
But for me large number of good traits are bad traits and the other way around.

Here is what I am thinking

Good

Tense- usually makes you a jerk
Spontaneous- disorganised and irresponsible
Dependable- if they say it is then it must be true
Religious- this one is highly debatable
Shy- afraid of life
Bold and Brave - could mean quite stupid and lack of calculation


Bad

Inflexible- can very often be another word for determined
Cold- stabile and good thinker
Cowardly- good chance of having a last laugh, or high efficacity
Aloof , Passive and Distant - could mean objective and observant
Ignorant- ignorant toward what?
Humorless- focused toward the task
Predictable- imagine that everybody are unpredictable
Vulgar- interesting, maybe even funny
Over dramatic- someone who fights against BS
Insensitive- what if person is parasitic or too needy?


This are the most obvious cases for me. Also this words without context don't say much.
I know that my system of values is not too close to mainstream values but to what degree this works for others.
I ask since in may cases good is bad and bad is good for me.

 

[King sns]

I have one question.

I am watching what is going one here and I have one observation.

We have two categories one good one bad.
But for me large number of good traits are bad traits and the other way around.

Here is what I am thinking

Good

Tense- usually makes you a jerk
Spontaneous- disorganised and irresponsible
Dependable- if they say it is then it must be true
Religious- this one is highly debatable
Shy- afraid of life
Bold and Brave - could mean quite stupid and lack of calculation


Bad

Inflexible- can very often be another word for determined
Cold- stabile and good thinker
Cowardly- good chance of having a last laugh, or high efficacity
Aloof , Passive and Distant - could mean objective and observant
Ignorant- ignorant toward what?
Humorless- focused toward the task
Predictable- imagine that everybody are unpredictable
Vulgar- interesting, maybe even funny
Over dramatic- someone who fights against BS
Insensitive- what if person is parasitic or too needy?


This are the most obvious cases for me. Also this words without context don't say much.
I know that my system of values is not too close to mainstream values but to what degree this works for others.
I ask since in may cases good is bad and bad is good for me.

I recommend a dictionary.

 

[Synarch]

I recommend a dictionary.

We're changing your name to "shortnsour"! Nice!

 

[Economica]

for the successful thread resuscitation!

I'm going to fill out charts for people whose online persona I have a feel for. Just want to reiterate what I said during this thread's first life:

Oh wow... I'm finding it really harsh to do the Nohari ones for the rest of you. I just want to say it's a process of elimination, not "you're soooo this".

I also decided to make new charts for myself, mostly since I think my online persona has changed enough that I'd like to keep new 'votes' separate from those of 2007:

Johari
Nohari

 

[wolfy]

Here is mine

Johari

Nohari

Anybody who knows me do mine please. And thanks to those who did.

 

[King sns]

I did your Johari but not nohari wolfy. Again no real evidence of faults.

 

[wolfy]

I did your Johari but not nohari wolfy. Again no real evidence of faults.

Cheers! I did the same for you.

 

[Eldanen]

I placed mine in my sig for now .

 

[Venom]

off course im joining in! see sig... im gonna do a bunch of yas right now before i head out for teh Friday...

 

[Venom]

Interactive Johari Window - Describe Amargith
The Nohari Window - Describe Amargith


Jennifer, I've just fallen in love with you. I just studied this in one of my classes, and am absolutely ecstatic that you've posted this

My turn. Please contribute!

Interactive Johari Window - Describe Synarch
The Nohari Window - Describe Synarch

JocktheMotie's Johari



JocktheMotie's Nohari


I'm at work, so I'll get to others' a bit later. Looks neat though.

Interactive Johari Window - Describe ygolo

The Nohari Window - Describe ygolo

I'll be a nice victim and go first.

- Jennifer's Johari window
- Jennifer's Nohari window

Done. ...

 

[Kasper]

[johari]

[johari]

Oops did it twice, but this time I wasn't drunk if that helps

[johari]

[windows]

[johari]

[johari]

[windows]

[windows]

[windows]

Ya'll been tagged. Couldn’t do nohari for everyone.

So you know my computer has been automatically adding witty to the johari window and humourless to the nohari window for some people. It doesn't register in your percentages though.

I find the Nohari way more helpful. I like knowing the less fun stuff.

Agree. So much more can be learnt from knowing weaknesses, the johari is helpful to understand if we're being misinterpreted so we can change our behaviour if we want but it's all good, the nohari shows things that really need to be looked at.


Btw, thanks to the people who've done mine and feel free to take a stab at the nohari if you can, I'm impossible to offend

 

[Lady_X]

you picked one of them twice for me too...how'd ya do that?

 

[Kasper]

you picked one of them twice for me too...how'd ya do that?

Crap! I thought I checked. Kay so I was drunk last night and didn't remember which ones I did, sorry

 

[Lady_X]

oh that's okay...it was a good one...haha

 

[Economica]

Are others also experiencing more problems than Trinity's witty/humorless add-on? For instance, in my Johari, out of four participants it says that 50% picked 'tense', but the word only shows up on one list.

 

[Kasper]

Question is; does it make you tense?

I was the first to do Wolfy's and somehow I managed to give him a 200% score for witty. Therefore I blame Edahn

 

[Economica]

Question is; does it make you tense?

I foresee 'organized' showing up as a strong blind spot (again!).

 

[Virtual ghost]

I recommend a dictionary.

One thing is what dictionary says and another thing is what that could actually mean in the real world.


For example people accuse me that I am cold and distant and then they are trying to figure out how is it possble that I know so much.

 

[wolfy]

Question is; does it make you tense?

I was the first to do Wolfy's and somehow I managed to give him a 200% score for witty. Therefore I blame Edahn

So am I witty or not?

 

[Kasper]

So am I witty or not?

I thought so, the cyber world thought so as well