Hello!
I asked this question to my INFJ friend a few weeks ago:
ENFP (me): why do you reject me??
INFJ: I'm not!!! I'm just.. avoiding you.. HAHAHA
so the context of this is our friendship. I told him I've been trying to hang out with him for ages but he's always been so busy. So i jokingly poked him with the "stop rejecting meeeee" thing and I don't know what he meant by "avoiding me".
Does this mean that he knows I've been making effort and he's weary/uncomfy of it?
ALSO, I should add that.. there is a bit of ambiguity in this friendship. I'm not saying either of us are definitely interested in each other, but.. I think after this past summer, there's been a lot more attention on him that I've been picking up and I'm not sure why or if he notices the same thing toward me.
SO.. just tryna cover all the possible grounds... is it possible that when he meant "avoiding" he meant "avoiding the possibility of relationship", or "avoiding confirmation/confrontation" because he's not sure of his feelings?
help ya enfp girl out, thanks!
I asked this question to my INFJ friend a few weeks ago:
ENFP (me): why do you reject me??
INFJ: I'm not!!! I'm just.. avoiding you.. HAHAHA
so the context of this is our friendship. I told him I've been trying to hang out with him for ages but he's always been so busy. So i jokingly poked him with the "stop rejecting meeeee" thing and I don't know what he meant by "avoiding me".
Does this mean that he knows I've been making effort and he's weary/uncomfy of it?
ALSO, I should add that.. there is a bit of ambiguity in this friendship. I'm not saying either of us are definitely interested in each other, but.. I think after this past summer, there's been a lot more attention on him that I've been picking up and I'm not sure why or if he notices the same thing toward me.
SO.. just tryna cover all the possible grounds... is it possible that when he meant "avoiding" he meant "avoiding the possibility of relationship", or "avoiding confirmation/confrontation" because he's not sure of his feelings?
help ya enfp girl out, thanks!