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[Other/Multiple Temperaments] Do you find your same type fellas to have less appeal than other types'?

Yama

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Messages
7,684
MBTI Type
ESFJ
Enneagram
6w7
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
Most other ISFJs are pretty fucking annoying. Some are tolerable though. I prefer ISTJs.
 

Agent Washington

Softserve Ice Cream
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Any gay ISTJs here? :wink::wink::wink::wink:

I'll think someone is hot but I don't bother finding out their types, so no clue.
 

Merced

Talk to me.
Joined
May 14, 2016
Messages
3,599
MBTI Type
ESTJ
Enneagram
28?
Instinctual Variant
so/sp
ENFPs are extremely annoying.

e2s are pretty cool though.
 

Mufassa

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As friends- great fun, easy communication. As romantic partners- not enough of a challenge to keep it interesting. No chance of mutual growth. ( ENFP)
 

PumpkinMayCare

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Joined
Mar 2, 2017
Messages
1,078
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
714
Instinctual Variant
so/sp
No. I think ENFPs are very interesting creatures. Maybe even more because they can be so diverse (especially their values) due to their Ne-Fi. That's extremely interesting. I tend to end up with Ti-users though ... all the frigging time.
 

Lord Lavender

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Messages
5,851
MBTI Type
EVLF
Enneagram
739
Instinctual Variant
so/sp
ENTPs are cool man so you cant get enough of them but it can be like two carnivores in a room together trying to out meat eat each other. When me and another ENTP get together we tend to troll tag team others and if there is none around troll each other in a twisted cannibalism :D. Overall its a fun relationship though.
 

Littleclaypot

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Feb 8, 2017
Messages
629
MBTI Type
INFJ
Enneagram
297
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
Absolutely. I would choke another INFJ out if I had to deal with them in a romantic situation Hahahah.
 

Qlip

Post Human Post
Joined
Jul 30, 2010
Messages
8,464
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
I've always been pretty intrigued by ENFPs, especially 4s. My special gal is an INFP 4. I'm a little contra-type due to enneagram stuff, so I'm not sure this is typical.
 

bundleofsunshine

New member
Joined
Jan 5, 2014
Messages
81
MBTI Type
ISFP
Enneagram
4w3
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
T women and F women tend to prefer T men imo. That's why F men are often twice as insecure as the average woman is.
 

hjgbujhghg

I am
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Jun 6, 2013
Messages
3,333
MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
4w3
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
I haven't met many INFPs and those who I met weren't very appealing to me to be honest. I'm more likely to enjoy the company of extroverts, dynamic people who bring a vibrant energy (not too muc tough, too much extroversion is draining) and I tend to feel a bit better in a company of thinking types as well.
 

Metis

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Yes. INTP men are not sexy to me. They're annoyingly argumentative about things that don't exist.

I met one I liked, but that was when I thought he was an ESTJ (which was also surprising, since I don't usually have crushes on SJs). He had some attractive habits he'd learned, and a good physique, but he turned out to have a more passive-aggressive and procrastinating character than I'd seen upon first impressions. He could be straightforward and get stuff done, but it didn't come to him naturally, and the impression fell apart.

Normally when I think a dude is an INTP, we can get along, but I'm not going to be like, "Wow, your obsession with the faulty logic you employ is so sexy! I love it when you get stuck in your head and come up with whole philosophies of the universe based on something you imagine I said, which wasn't actually what I even said."

I'm usually attracted to SPs (except ISTPs--too similar maybe) and some ENFP/ENTPs. I like a man who can take some light-hearted teasing without responding like an asshole, crying, or acting like I'm being inappropriate. In fact, he should enjoy it or we're not likely to get very far in the conversation. I was going to say that he should consider it to be flirting, but that's actually not necessarily true at all. It's fun to tease anyone who is a good sport.
 

Lexicon

Temporal Mechanic
Staff member
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
12,342
MBTI Type
JINX
Enneagram
5w6
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
I've said it before, & I'll say it again: dating an INFJ would likely just feel incestuous.
Not enough contrast for chemistry, generally speaking.
 
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