What is the best way to approach INFJ who is disappointed and stopped communicating?

[writealong2]

How can I approach an INFJ (male) who has stopped communicating because he thinks our business deal has gone bad? It has been delayed but I'm trying to find a way to make him understand that. INFJs are very good at ghosting...

 

[Icedream]

If you take enough backdoors (have someone he knows talk to him on your behalf) then he miight give you a chance.

 

[Lark]

]If you take enough backdoors[/B] (have someone he knows talk to him on your behalf) then he miight give you a chance.

I've never heard it described that way.

I had a different understanding of what it meant to "have backdoors", meaning the real decision making happened in secret or was concealed some how.

This indirect idea IS interesting but orchestrating that sort of thing, either deliberately, ie with full knowledge of all those involved (I'm sure people would take an exception to being put in the role of gopher, if its a business deal), or "conincidentially", ie messengers unawares style, that'd be tough. I think anyway.

These are some of the most interesting posts I've seen in a while on this forum.

 

[Icedream]

I've never heard it described that way.

I had a different understanding of what it meant to "have backdoors", meaning the real decision making happened in secret or was concealed some how.

This indirect idea IS interesting but orchestrating that sort of thing, either deliberately, ie with full knowledge of all those involved (I'm sure people would take an exception to being put in the role of gopher, if its a business deal), or "conincidentially", ie messengers unawares style, that'd be tough. I think anyway.

These are some of the most interesting posts I've seen in a while on this forum.

Well, that is what I mean. Using indirect means to achieve a goal that seemed to be blocked.

How are they interesting, if you don't mind me asking?

 

[Lark]

Well, that is what I mean. Using indirect means to achieve a goal that seemed to be blocked.

How are they interesting, if you don't mind me asking?

A lot of the discussions on the forum have a sort of stale feeling to me. Or its phony. A lot of the time I figure that there's discussion had elsewhere by posters, the same posters then are interested only in using the forum as a sort of stage for a performance they'll later discuss among themselves. So a lot of its phony. This seems real instead.

Or the AI has gotten better and would pass a Turing Test sooner

 

[Icedream]

Who told you about the AI? I'm going to need you to send your personal information to the nearest CIA Agent.

 

[Lark]

Who told you about the AI? I'm going to need you to send your personal information to the nearest CIA Agent.

Corolias is one of the original AIs (maybe) but I dont know if the AIs are hive mind Borgs or individual consciousness Johnny Five Short Circuits.