treetophideaway
New member
- Joined
- Jan 2, 2017
- Messages
- 64
- MBTI Type
- ISFP
- Enneagram
- 4w5
- Instinctual Variant
- sp
I am either a dominant or auxiliary Fi type. I don't know whether Se or Fi comes first or second. I can say Se feels a little more natural or maybe easier is the right way to say it. They both occur very naturally, but Se is easier to embrace I guess. I don't know if that means Se is dominant because it's easier to handle or if Fi is dominant because it's more intense feeling although not as easy to handle sometimes. Fi is harder to handle at times because I get such intense feelings (particularly negative ones like sadness, fear/anxiety, loneliness) and I don't know what to do with them sometimes. I get overwhelmed by feelings sometimes and want to run from them or just not feel them which has led to some unhealthy decisions in order to avoid them. How do you deal with really intense feelings? What are some of your healthy ways you deal with them and what unhealthy ways of dealing with them do you struggle with?