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ESTP men & ENFP female

VeronicaGrace

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Dec 9, 2017
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We were in a four year plus relationship. The most stressful in my life. Everything was so black and white with him. He question my thoughts, made me feel small, just wore a mask for others. Friends okay but relationship. Never! Is it just me?
 

Amargith

Hotel California
Joined
Nov 5, 2008
Messages
14,717
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
4dw
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
Doesnt sound healthy for you to date him, nope.
 

Alassea

New member
Joined
Oct 15, 2016
Messages
204
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
3w4
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
Okay? Is there a question to this?

If not, keep us updated on what's going on.
 

BrownSugar

New member
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Sep 12, 2013
Messages
5
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
7
Same!! I'm dating an ESTP going on six years. hahah. It is insaneeeee. We broke up and then he called me out of the blue a month later. I got back with him even though I said no I would never do it. I don't know what the draw is. We have terrible conflict resolution. He always questions my motives. He is never wrong. But we like to have fun together and do silly things. As a team, we are unstoppable when we are on the same page. He does a lot of acts of service for me and sex is pretty great. He says I'm brilliant and he's never met anyone smarter. He's a risk taker and a go getter that is pretty accomplished. BRAVE. He's not afraid to do anything. I agree with OP we make great friends and lovers but not if we don't agree! . I don't recommend ENFP be in an intimate relationships with ESTPs either if you can avoid it. What I found pretty interesting is that MBTI says INFJs for ESTPs and INFJs for ENFPs that's really funny. That must mean something. We both want INFJs! haha but wound up with each other!
 

Alassea

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Messages
204
MBTI Type
ENFP
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3w4
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so/sx
Same!! I'm dating an ESTP going on six years. hahah. It is insaneeeee. We broke up and then he called me out of the blue a month later. I got back with him even though I said no I would never do it. I don't know what the draw is. We have terrible conflict resolution. He always questions my motives. He is never wrong. But we like to have fun together and do silly things. As a team, we are unstoppable when we are on the same page. He does a lot of acts of service for me and sex is pretty great. He says I'm brilliant and he's never met anyone smarter. He's a risk taker and a go getter that is pretty accomplished. BRAVE. He's not afraid to do anything. I agree with OP we make great friends and lovers but not if we don't agree! . I don't recommend ENFP be in an intimate relationships with ESTPs either if you can avoid it. What I found pretty interesting is that MBTI says INFJs for ESTPs and INFJs for ENFPs that's really funny. That must mean something. We both want INFJs! haha but wound up with each other!

INFJ for a more stable and calm relationship and ESTP for a wild ride with great sex. ;^)
 

Mask Off

New member
Joined
Mar 29, 2017
Messages
49
MBTI Type
ISTP
Enneagram
8
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
Dang four years and six years in these kind of relationships ! Do you guys force yourselves ?
 

Abcdenfp

Terpsichore
Joined
May 19, 2017
Messages
1,669
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
7W8
We were in a four year plus relationship. The most stressful in my life. Everything was so black and white with him. He question my thoughts, made me feel small, just wore a mask for others. Friends okay but relationship. Never! Is it just me?
It's a strange attraction and they get fixated with us, I think it's because generally speaking neither one can get bored. It just doesn't click for me in the end .. ISTP different story like fire meets gasoline
 

Peter Deadpan

phallus impudicus
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Dec 14, 2016
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My brother is an ESTP and he hates me for literally no reason.

Functions are oppositely oriented and backwards. Since communication is one of the pillars of a healthy relationship, it's hard to maintain one when you speak two different languages.
 

BrownSugar

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Messages
5
MBTI Type
ENFP
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7
INFJ for a more stable and calm relationship and ESTP for a wild ride with great sex. ;^)
Actually, INFJ for all of the above:) . I had one. Fate did not allow us to be so. He was and is an absolutely incredible human being. INFJs *makes dreamy face * sigh...
Edit: You just have to work a little harder with ESTPs
 
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Forever

Permabanned
Joined
Aug 30, 2013
Messages
8,551
MBTI Type
NiFi
Enneagram
3w4
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sx/so
Actually, INFJ for all of the above:) . I had one. Fate did not allow us to be so. He was and is an absolutely incredible human being. INFJs *makes dreamy face * sigh...
Edit: You just have to work a little harder with ESTPs

:fireplace:
 

Alassea

New member
Joined
Oct 15, 2016
Messages
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MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
3w4
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
Actually, INFJ for all of the above:) . I had one. Fate did not allow us to be so. He was and is an absolutely incredible human being. INFJs *makes dreamy face * sigh...
Edit: You just have to work a little harder with ESTPs

I will have to back this up as solid.
I made that post when I was still ignorant.

I just finished watching a kdrama called "Scarlet Heart Ryeo" and holy shit, it tore my heart out.
I will now have to admit that INFJ have AMAZING and SIZZLING chemistry with ENFPs omygawd. I highly recommend watching that all the way till the very end.
 
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