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    Macabre Reputation Thestralis's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Mysterious Stranger View Post
    Out of curiosity, I've always wondered what you get out of that?
    Well, being true to myself for one.
    They are quite gentle, really, but people avoid them because they are a bit . . . different.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coriolis View Post
    Well, being true to myself for one.
    well that does make a lot of sense, you daid for one, would you feel comfortable sharing any more?
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    I wanted to say that there is no Te being an asshole, only assholes with Te, or assholes who can't listen to Te, but saying the latter probably just cements in that 'Te = asshole' thing. The joy of being Fe-less.

    Either way, this Te 'assholery' I feel, is a two-way street. The Te-user can soften up, but the recipient may also need to toughen up a little. Honestly, it's not that difficult to not be an asshole, so OP / other posters may have to clarify what is meant by being an 'asshole'- being honestly direct does not count (being brutally blunt, which emphasizes shock value and emotional impact, does).

    As for how to balance the needs of one with the needs of the many, making sure everyone is working together and doing their part towards the agreed-upon goal. Someone clears a path, the other paves the roads, some others are medics and stand watch- effectiveness in working towards the same, consensually, mutually agreed upon goal is already generally mutually beneficial and caring to others' needs.
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