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What type are the ones who loves to set up a plan but never meant to do it?

kotoshinohaisha

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Edit: Let me explain. I love to make plans, i like making commitments less. Plans are different to commitments imo. I can't stand being made to feel obliged though. Clear up with her if she can commit to things before firming things up. Also ENFP's generally like a little time to think things through. We 'can' work on the fly but plans can go all sorts of wrong. Oh also, is she afraid you will be alone together? maybe thats it.
Nope. We're like four there. Old friends. Like sort of reunion. She doesn't value us. She's a... Amf. Whatever.

And it's all girls.. She'd rather go with her boyfriend i think than go with us.. Such a bitch. User.
 
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Yes pretty much. Well I build excitement with the intentions of doing it, but without having an idea beforehand of what to do which can be a bit of a mess when I try to actually do it with little ability to execute plans.
 

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I listen to others plan, adjust the plans to my needs and then only do 80% of it :D
 

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Nope. We're like four there. Old friends. Like sort of reunion. She doesn't value us. She's a... Amf. Whatever.

And it's all girls.. She'd rather go with her boyfriend i think than go with us.. Such a bitch. User.

Maybe ask her about it. Ask her weather she thinks she is making a commitment when you plan to do something together. I have all kinds of conversations with people about future plans but rarely do they happen. Often the fun is in the planning without needing to go through with it. Though if i think someone is actually relying on me I will try to adapt either my own or their expectations of the situation.
 

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Maybe ask her about it. Ask her weather she thinks she is making a commitment when you plan to do something together. I have all kinds of conversations with people about future plans but rarely do they happen. Often the fun is in the planning without needing to go through with it. Though if i think someone is actually relying on me I will try to adapt either my own or their expectations of the situation.
Yeah lesson learned. Thanks girl 😘
 
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