Here are some of the official definitions from this site:
Subtypes - Enneagram Monthly
"The sexual instinct strives towards syntony with the world, to be in tune and vibrate with it; you have to cover a lot of space, emit the strongest and pick up the subtlest signals when searching for the most or best of mates.
Sexual (SX):
• Vibrating out there, looking for a mate; peacock displaying his feathers, deer locking antlers
• Susceptibility to states of intoxication, tripping
• Schizoid disposition (split between affect and intellect, invalidating one with the other)
• Lightness, playfulness
• Curious, seeking, searching
• Often has shiny, leaky eyes (leaking the high energy of sexuality)
• Not about orgasm (which one can have alone) but about letting go, dropping barriers, intimacy, closeness, union through revealing/denuding oneself
• Madonna or whore, abstinent or promiscuous
• Frigid or impotent, unusual sexual preferences
• Crime of passion
• Least likely to become famous (SP goes for immortality, SO intent on glory; SX has other things to do)
• SX: I have the power to attract whomever I choose and I know what passion means. I am in tune with the world around, sense its vibrations, and am ready to respond when my mate calls.
• SX: Through union with the One I can transcend myself, achieve wholeness (oneness with myself; I’m the half of a pair)
• SX: To be intimate or not to be intimate; how to be intimate"
There's a lot more on that link with specific questions and issues answered by each of the variants.
Wow, it just occurred to me that "Closer" by NIN defines this rather perfectly.
not because it's bad or anything...but more of a good luck with "objectifying" it will get you half ass people alot of the time. I am all for checking out someone hot, but raise your standards for "wow" you will be better off getting what you want in life and being happier.
