[MBTI General] Men: Which types has the most physically attractive women in your experiences?

[Coriolis]

that's my point exactly, it's hypocritical and self righteous to pretend that looks don't matter, they do and of course as you get to know someone better they matter less but initially you have to find someone physically appealing otherwise you would become friends not lovers .

All my romantic partners have started off as friends. Best way to get to know someone without the pressure of a dating situation. Sure, I wouldn't mind having an attractive partner, but not at the expense of qualities I find much more important. The substance, passion, and magnanimity [MENTION=34448]Sacrophagus[/MENTION] mentioned are a good start. Plus I'm not that great looking myself, so to demand more would also be hypocritical. The appearance factors I do value most include personal grooming, neat/clean dressing, and staying relatively healthy and fit. My INTP earns at best a B- on this count, but I took him anyway.

 

[1487610420]

my types

 

[Abcdenfp]

All my romantic partners have started off as friends. Best way to get to know someone without the pressure of a dating situation. Sure, I wouldn't mind having an attractive partner, but not at the expense of qualities I find much more important. The substance, passion, and magnanimity [MENTION=34448]Sacrophagus[/MENTION] mentioned are a good start. Plus I'm not that great looking myself, so to demand more would also be hypocritical. The appearance factors I do value most include personal grooming, neat/clean dressing, and staying relatively healthy and fit. My INTP earns at best a B- on this count, but I took him anyway.

I agree with all the factors that you listed above and I include personal grooming, dress and fitness level under "physical appearance". Chemistry is a huge factor for me personally, it doesn't matter if other people find my significant other appealing as long as I do.

i also agree with Sacrophagus the substance, passion and magnanimity are a good start. But to blatantly say nah looks don't matter really to me , I just don't buy it. Everyone wants to look at their partner and find them appealing.

 

[ChocolateMoose123]

Oh phew ENFP is doing well in the polls.

Only the popular vote. The electoral votes haven't been counted yet

 

[Starry]

Only the popular vote. The electoral votes haven't been counted yet

You mean there's a chance the ENFP type won't be the most sexually attractive females that want to be dominated?

 

[Doctor Cringelord]

people r weird

 

[Ashtart]

people r weird

8,789 posts on this forum and you only realized it now?

 

[1487610420]

You mean there's a chance the ENFP type won't be the most sexually attractive females that want to be dominated?

we love your smarts, too.

 

[Starry]

we love your smarts, too.

wait what?

:randy:

 

[Population: 1]

Yeah a girls got to have a brain. Unless you're a shallow fellow, what are you going to do with a good looking but dense girl the other % of the time if you can't hold a decent conversation with her? Intelligence is right up there with beauty.

 

[1487610420]

Yeah a girls got to have a brain. Unless you're a shallow fellow, what are you going to do with a good looking but dense girl the other % of the time if you can't hold a decent conversation with her? Intelligence is right up there with beauty.

cultivate distance

 

[Agent Washington]

... Ah yes, let's arbitrarily classify something that's usually based on what's inside the cranium to extend it to what's outside the cranium, while singling out one specific gender while doing so.

 

[entropie]

Do robot woman count too?

 

[Coriolis]

i also agree with Sacrophagus the substance, passion and magnanimity are a good start. But to blatantly say nah looks don't matter really to me , I just don't buy it. Everyone wants to look at their partner and find them appealing.

But do we care about them because they look appealing, or do they look appealing to us because we care about them?

Do robot woman count too?

Your average robot woman can not only count, but do calculus and statistical modelling as well.

 

[Population: 1]

cultivate distance

You're too much of a romantic for your own good.

 

[Abcdenfp]

But do we care about them because they look appealing, or do they look appealing to us because we care about them? Your average robot woman can not only count, but do calculus and statistical modelling as well.

I think the how and why regarding what makes someone appealing to someone else is so subjective, you can meet someone and instantly find them attractive, or you can meet someone and they gradually grow on you and chemistry develops.
I am just bewildered as to why certain individuals are horrified at the idea that physical attractiveness would come into the equation at all. What I find attractive physically doesn't necessarily mean another person would. Especially regarding culture and background.

 

[entropie]

Your average robot woman can not only count, but do calculus and statistical modelling as well.

For a little extra bucks I can make her do whatever floats your boat

 

[ceecee]

Only the popular vote. The electoral votes haven't been counted yet

So *ENFP

 

[Starry]

pregnant chads (will count)

 

[Forever]

I feel like there was a thread like this before... in terms of personality many IxFP's swoon me.

Looks... just about every type has their fair share of good looking and not so good looking ones..

Idk... no type in particular I guess.. but Ni/Se and Se/Ni kind of more often than not ime.