Xena
Member
- Joined
- Nov 6, 2016
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- MBTI Type
- TeNi
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/so
Hi everyone,
From my own personal experience with ESJ types, I find that their controlling behavior, when not considering other people's desires, to be off-putting.
I have a strong desire not to be controlled, and so I feel like when I'm around my sister, an ESFJ, and she starts to try and force other people to do what she thinks is right, I feel like I have to advocate for them, that what she wants may not be what they want.
I'm wondering if my response to her behavior is because I lead with a subjective dominant judging function, and have an inferior extroverted one?
I realize all types have value, so I'm not trying to turn this into a hate thread on ESJ's by any means...just trying to understand my reactions.
Thanks
From my own personal experience with ESJ types, I find that their controlling behavior, when not considering other people's desires, to be off-putting.
I have a strong desire not to be controlled, and so I feel like when I'm around my sister, an ESFJ, and she starts to try and force other people to do what she thinks is right, I feel like I have to advocate for them, that what she wants may not be what they want.
I'm wondering if my response to her behavior is because I lead with a subjective dominant judging function, and have an inferior extroverted one?
I realize all types have value, so I'm not trying to turn this into a hate thread on ESJ's by any means...just trying to understand my reactions.
Thanks
