violet_crown
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I find the first much harder to manage than the second. Specifically, I often wonder in what way my vision is impacting my view of the past, and how I can correct for it.
Yeah man. The Ni memory struggle is real.
It's why I mentioned how impressed I was when I spoke to an NFP about how their process for reconciling new information with whatever their existing experience and belief system might be. The cost for them is that they're much more resistant to significant change than we are, and definitely more so than SPs.
In that way, it's a trade off. I can persist in the face of significant stress while I'm pursuing a goal, but I'm effectively on borrowed time. If I'm not diligent on self-care, then things start to get weird. So I can navigate the external world a lot more readily, even if internally I'm kind of a mess. NFPs seem to manage an impressive degree of internal coherence, even if they don't always have their lives together in an objective sense.