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Functions you find annoying?

MadTeaParty

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Personally, I can't stand Ni. People who have it high in their stacking are absolutely infuriating to me. Same goes for Fe and Si, though to a lesser extent.
I'm just wondering whether it depends on type or life experiences? Maybe both?
So are there any functions that you dislike for whatever reason?
 
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Fe can be annoying for being overly considerate, to the extent that it interferes with me.
 

Dreamer

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Personally, I can't stand Ni. People who have it high in their stacking are absolutely infuriating to me. Same goes for Fe and Si, though to a lesser extent.
I'm just wondering whether it depends on type or life experiences? Maybe both?
So are there any functions that you dislike for whatever reason?

For me it's less that any particular function(s) is aggravating for me, and more based on a scale of which ones I can put up with most, or least (in their dominant positions)

-Se can bore me after a while
-Te is tough, but I've learned to work with it since I was surrounded by it growing up
-Fe... Ok, that one is probably the one that comes closest to your question. It's pleasant to be around, especially when I'm a guest and they're the host. It's nice feeling appreciated. But overall, it can feel pretty gross to me and is probably the one I can stand to be around the least (again, looking at it in its dom position)

But more so is the case, that it's the individual person I can't stand for whatever reason, less than because of any function.
 

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Fe can be annoying for being overly considerate, to the extent that it interferes with me.

Yes. Sometimes the consideration creates a lot of assumptions which lead to Inefficiency.
 

MadTeaParty

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Fe can be annoying for being overly considerate, to the extent that it interferes with me.

-Fe... Ok, that one is probably the one that comes closest to your question. It's pleasant to be around, especially when I'm a guest and they're the host. It's nice feeling appreciated. But overall, it can feel pretty gross to me and is probably the one I can stand to be around the least (again, looking at it in its dom position)
Seems like Fe isn't very popular.
My mother's an ENFJ and she always drives me mad with her need to help others. I see it as restricting the independence of other people. I;m sure they're perfectly capable of dealing with their own problems without somebody holding their hand. And she always comes up with worst-case scenarios, worrying about everything. I'm much more optimistic and easy-going, "it'll be okay and if it's not, it won't be the end of the world".
 

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All of them.
 

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stubborn ones, not one inparticular, they can all get stubborn.
 

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Fair enough :D

I totally understand what you mean by Ni and Fe: *ahem*

Ni: c'mon i got you a brand new impression a really new one, world premiere,
Me: not right now
Ni: it's here only for a limited time now, and if you act fast, we'll throw in a free insight into your insight. Inception no?
Me:that's a dream within a dream.
Ni: yeah, but meanings change all the time don't they?
Me: shut up

Fe: hey hey you got to treat that person real nicely you hear?
Me: *overly nice*
Fe: YOU IDIOT. It sounds like you're manipulating him!
Me: wtf
Fe: SPEAK TO HIM TO LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL
me: can you stop screaming? That's rude
Fe:DO IT
Me: no
Fe: DO IT
me: no
Fe: dew et
me: fine *person runs away with look of contempt and cowardice*
Fe: YOU-
me: SHUT UP
 

MadTeaParty

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I totally understand what you mean by Ni and Fe: *ahem*

Ni: c'mon i got you a brand new impression a really new one, world premiere,
Me: not right now
Ni: it's here only for a limited time now, and if you act fast, we'll throw in a free insight into your insight. Inception no?
Me:that's a dream within a dream.
Ni: yeah, but meanings change all the time don't they?
Me: shut up

Fe: hey hey you got to treat that person real nicely you here?
Me: *overly nice*
Fe: YOU IDIOT. It sounds like you're manipulating him!
Me: wtf
Fe: SPEAK TO HIM TO LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL
me: can you stop screaming? That's rude
Fe:DO IT
Me: no
Fe: DO IT
me: no
Fe: dew et
me: fine *person runs away with look of contempt and cowardice*
Fe: YOU-
me: SHUT UP

LOL :D
You summed it up beautifully.
 

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Fi is annoying. Annoyingly perfect.
 

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All of them. People suck. I'm an equal opportunity hater.
 

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I totally understand what you mean by Ni and Fe: *ahem*

Ni: c'mon i got you a brand new impression a really new one, world premiere,
Me: not right now
Ni: it's here only for a limited time now, and if you act fast, we'll throw in a free insight into your insight. Inception no?
Me:that's a dream within a dream.
Ni: yeah, but meanings change all the time don't they?
Me: shut up

Fe: hey hey you got to treat that person real nicely you hear?
Me: *overly nice*
Fe: YOU IDIOT. It sounds like you're manipulating him!
Me: wtf
Fe: SPEAK TO HIM TO LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL
me: can you stop screaming? That's rude

Fe:DO IT
Me: no
Fe: DO IT
me: no
Fe: dew et
me: fine *person runs away with look of contempt and cowardice*
Fe: YOU-
me: SHUT UP

hahaha this is my favorite, responding to your inner Fe, with Fe.
 

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Se and Te I guess, but I think I am pretty annoying too.
 
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